"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how many of u guys are in a LTR?

BingoBango

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Dunno what the point of this is.

- Myself been in 2 proper LTRs,
- some shorter relationships.
- Laid about 35-40 girls (one night stands,
****buddies etc)

Was in a crap LTR for about 2.5 years, was fun but didnt help me with my goals.

So now i'm happily single coz i'm getting laid whenever, so I'd only do an LTR if the girl inspired me in my work (didnt distract me from it)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Master Don Juan
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early 20s
3 long term relationships -- 4 months to 3 years
slept with ~15
yes, in one now
 
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