"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How Many here actually Approach?

Distant Light

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I was talking to a guy on aim earlier about pick up and I told him how after this week when I'm finish reading up on a few areas that are my sticking points, I'm going to be a approach machine. How I'm going to keep a journal (Private forums) that will have all my FRs, Pictures of girls I sarged, and hopefully video to depending on what cell phone I by or if I by the Camera that all the PUAs use.

Why did I decide to make a journal? because I'm soon going to be out of highschool and I want to be able to pull any girl at a very young age so by time I'm 21 I'm already at mastery level. I planned on sarging 4 or 5 times a week, and gaming any girls that I thought was hot as I go about my life. But I was curious how many times a wekk does he go out and approach. Then I just had a few questions in my mind that I wanted to ask the people also because I suspected that some if not most of the guys here approach very little to none, some don't even do cold approachs just try to get who they know limiting themselves even more.

So these are the questions that came to mind that I wanted to ask.

1. How many people hear actually approach girls?

2. How many times a week do go out and approach girls?

3. Do you think if your buddy was to say go approach that group girls, that you would be able to open a 3set? Would you be able to pull the one you want?

4. Would you be able to get a girl who already has a bf?

5. Are you able to successfully get a girl attracted to you?and not be the next guy?or the entertainer?

6. Are you being able to bed girls after day 2 or day 3?

7. Do you think you could get any girl that you approach?

Final: What would you rate you pick up skills from 1 to 10?

See where you fit in

9-10(Mastery Level)
Basically at mastery level can open any set easily and can basically do solid game, usually guys who only sarge 9s and 10s and rarely 8s. There the ones using alot of advanced stuff, such as merging, pivots, pawns, etc.
8(Pro)
At times could be just as good as mastery level, usually gets a mixture of 8s 9s and 10s. Has a few more sticking points than mastery level, but none the less still reall good.
7 (Good)
Can consistently pull chicks, he may lose a few girls here and there because they still need work on a few areas. But still getting layed consistently and still fuvking alot of girls. Pulling a few 9s and 10s.
6 (Decent)
Been in the game for awhile and is still learning alot, once inawhile he pulls a few chicks. Kinda have ups and downs when sarging. One night he can do decent other nights maybe get only 1 good set.
5 (Naturals)
Naturally good with the girls, while he can't consistently get any girl he wants he can still get a few girls. Guys who don't have a clue about seduction or if they do they don't really don't read much on it. There still getting a few. girls. If they do know about seduction there just starting to get into it and have been trying alot of stuff pulling a few girls here and there, nothing to much to talk about.
4 (Learning)
Improving and showing a effort, these are the guys that go up to the next level. Once in awhile when learning they get the lay or get far into the set. Has alot more to learn but certain areas he is pretty good at.
3 (KBJ)
May know alot or decent amount of seduction knowledge. But never had the balls to try it out in the real world. They basically know all this for nothing, and was a waste of there time, because they never try anything the learned.
2 (Noobs)
New and practices at a very slow rate sometimes never approaches girls, or if they do they only focus on one girl or a select few. Usually go in with no clue but knows about not being AFC.
1 (AFCs)
Doesn't know what to do if put in the situation wouldn't be able to do anything. Can't open nothing successfully unless lucky or just seen as a friend. Only thing some of these guys get are fools mate.

Well find out where you would stand if you was to think about it and be honest, I would say I'm probably a 5.5 due to my effort but my knowledge is probably at a 8 or 9.

Reason I was posting this is because there are so many guys on here that have been on this site for 8 months and more and still can't fuvk the girls they want. They may try to get the girls they alreayd know but, most the guys can't cold approach successfully, or at a event such as clubs, bars, concerts, etc. So I was just curious to see how many people are actually approaching and not living a fantasy on there computer.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ethnomethodologist

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1. I am an approach machine, I convince girls to sarge with me. Intro, rapport, IOD, and indirect game.

2. I leave the house everyday, on my off days where I am sick, I stay sick. What are you really asking though? I'll make a guess, I sarge everyday possible, I sarge at the post office, at the market, in busses, and IOI's while driving.

3. I could open and close, and make them giggle and laugh? Depends on how far I have to pull, but I can if I have nothing else I want that night.

4. Short answer, yes.

5. Yes sir! I am THAT guy! There are entertainers in all of us!

6. I am for day ONE, after the set, that I don't close, I start to stick. I become "boring".

7. I am not stupid, I can't get any girl I try to get with. Most I bail on after I get to know them. Some girls I play intentionally just to get to their friends, who I bail on, so I won't backtrack as a means of escape.

Final: I rate myself as a 9 with the techniques I pull, as a 6 in terms of the knowledge I have, I am on average a 7. I am bipolar, some days I enter the matrix, other days I can only sit back and watch.
 

oakraiderz2

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I give myself a 7.5-8. I know what the **** im doing, theres never anywhere to hang out so i slack a little. But yea, i fvckin rock.
 

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1. Yes, I approach, though I get AA from time to time. Particularly in day game and while sober.

2. 1-2 nights a week.

3. Yes, I could open it, I have trouble pulling the one I want out of sets.

4. Yes.

5. Yes, if consistency is defined as maybe 1 out of every 3 sets. That is still 3-4 girls a night.

6. Normally, yes, but I am struggling a bit in that area in the last month. Getting more LMR than usual.

7. No.

Overall, a 6. I can pull a high quantity if I want, but my game lacks quality. I can get ONS with someone pretty much any night out, and I have really challenged my reality on getting nearly immediate makeouts. It is a strong point of my game. I have been having a hard time even finding good targets the last few times out, which sucks.
 

Bonhomme

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1. How many people hear actually approach girls?

Yes, of course.

2. How many times a week do go out and approach girls?

Varies from 0 to about 6

3. Do you think if your buddy was to say go approach that group girls, that you would be able to open a 3set? Would you be able to pull the one you want?

No. I'd be able to pull any that want me.

4. Would you be able to get a girl who already has a bf?

Sure. If she's less into him than me.

5. Are you able to successfully get a girl attracted to you?and not be the next guy?or the entertainer?

Yes.

6. Are you being able to bed girls after day 2 or day 3?

Day 1. Happens with about 1 of 3 of the ones I get a date with.

7. Do you think you could get any girl that you approach?

Heeaaallll No! Get real! Brad fvcking Pitt couldn't (my ex thinks he's "yucky.")

Final: What would you rate you pick up skills from 1 to 10?

About 6 success by your scale; accounting for my age relative to the average gal at the venues I go to (about 15-20 years older) and other handicapping factors, about 7. Quality over quantity. If I were 10 years younger, I'd probably be scoring hot gals almost every night out (now I attract them, but most balk on account of the vast age difference), but back then I was way too skinny and pretty much clueless. Where the hell do I find hot, sane, and reasonably hip women close to my age who are actually available?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warlord

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There's a high school forum, use it ****head.
 

Leuven

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Definitely a 4.


I go out lots of times and try to approach every day. One day it goes easier than the other.
Depends on my mindset and places I'm into and with who.

I find myself approaching the most when I haven't been drinking alcohol and alone in a bar. Most of my friends are AFC and I often get pulled down to their level for the evening. When drinking alcohol I can't force myself to approach anymore!
 

silverwex

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1. How many people hear actually approach girls?

I do, just started last week!


2. How many times a week do go out and approach girls?

At least once, saturday night. Friday nights mostly too.


3. Do you think if your buddy was to say go approach that group girls, that you would be able to open a 3set? Would you be able to pull the one you want?

Approached a 6 set last night :)


4. Would you be able to get a girl who already has a bf?

Have done before.


5. Are you able to successfully get a girl attracted to you?and not be the next guy?or the entertainer?

50/50


6. Are you being able to bed girls after day 2 or day 3?

No comment


7. Do you think you could get any girl that you approach?

No one can, but you can increase your chances with the info here.

Final: What would you rate you pick up skills from 1 to 10?

About a 6.5
 
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1. I do. All the time.

2. 2-3 days, it's not my life. I have other things to do and so should you.

3. I could open a three set. Not a problem. I'd pull the girl that had the most IL for me in the group. Sure enough.

4. Sure I could get a girl who had a BF, but that's not my game. I don't go after them once I find out they are taken.

5. Tough question cause I don't try to get them attracted to me, they already have to be before I make a move.

6. Bed a girl in 2-3 days? I don't do this. Read Anti-Dump's machine and you'll see why.

7. Nope. Let's get real here... Sometimes girls are just having fun.

All in all I'd put me at a 4, because I'm not the master but I will go after what I want. I'll soon be joining the rest at the top.

ADKdj
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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manuva

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Originally posted by Distant Light

1. How many people hear actually approach girls?

2. How many times a week do go out and approach girls?

3. Do you think if your buddy was to say go approach that group girls, that you would be able to open a 3set? Would you be able to pull the one you want?

4. Would you be able to get a girl who already has a bf?

5. Are you able to successfully get a girl attracted to you?and not be the next guy?or the entertainer?

6. Are you being able to bed girls after day 2 or day 3?

7. Do you think you could get any girl that you approach?

Yes.
 
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