"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How many guys are DJs

Dash Riprock

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A great war general [Playa] ALWAYS knows his enemy:

Thinking today about how many single guys, say 20-40, have even somewhat decent game or DJ skills. I'm not talking a Master DJ either; just a dude who knows the basics of playing The Game..

My guess: 2/10, 20%
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sure maybe 20% of men are naturally good with women due to looks, personality, and social proof but those that actually understand DJ principles, why they attract women, and can effectively apply it to everyday life is probably less than 1%.
 

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looks don't equate goodness with women. I'm a good looking guy (see pics) and I was HORRIBLE with women before I found thi site. I got ass, but it was off sheer looks and once I opened my mouth they ran for cover because of the AFCism I spewed everywehre.


about 20 percent sounds right, maybe a little lower. not higher
 

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backbreaker said:
looks don't equate goodness with women. I'm a good looking guy (see pics) and I was HORRIBLE with women before I found thi site. I got ass, but it was off sheer looks and once I opened my mouth they ran for cover because of the AFCism I spewed everywehre.


about 20 percent sounds right, maybe a little lower. not higher
I thought you said you were barely 5'8". Most girls think good looking guys are around 6'0".
 

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Do you mean how many guys are good enough to:

a. have a good looking girlfriend
b. succeed at getting a girlfriend among groups of friends
c. succeed regularly at cold approaches
d. succeed regularly at cold approaches with very hot women (9/10 range)

For a., I would say 20%. For d. I would say 1% or less. Very few men, very few men can regularly succeed at cold approaches with 9's/10's.

Dash Riprock said:
A great war general [Playa] ALWAYS knows his enemy:

Thinking today about how many single guys, say 20-40, have even somewhat decent game or DJ skills. I'm not talking a Master DJ either; just a dude who knows the basics of playing The Game..

My guess: 2/10, 20%
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigappledj said:
I thought you said you were barely 5'8". Most girls think good looking guys are around 6'0".


the power of a camera. I'm the tallest of my three best friends...I'm probably honesty 5'9 and such, I haven't been officially measured since 10th grade.
 

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:yes: Only 1% of all dudes in Western Countries are AlphaMales, you can make this work for you if you are smart enough to fill this void. :yes:
 
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I`ll never be a DJ, I`m a natural... never had any major problems with women. The only AFC thing I ever done was getting a gift for my x after we broke up, it was a christmas/closure present. She gave one on a date and I didn`t have anything, so I felt bad and got her something even after we broke up.
 

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Yeah out ten guys maybe 2 or 3 are naturals and maybe one or two more are okay with women.

Most guys just dont get it...
 
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