"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How many girls have you slept with this year?

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This should have been a Poll. It's useless otherwise. I already ran a poll as others did and found that most members have been with 10 or fewer women in their life. If you've been with about 25 that's more than about 85% of members. For me it's always been quality over quantity. 1-2 serious babes per year is my average over 20 years.

I'd prefer to know what the average rating of all the girls you ever slept with was. Mine is about 8.5.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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five this year , but ive only really started trying during the summer , and from what i hear , this towns a lot more active when school is still in , so im looking forward to that prolly 15 bjs tho , and I gotta say I think I prefer the bjs
 

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What is with these DJ low figures???? Come on boys. The world is our oyster man!!!!!!

You gotta get on that poon more.....this post has gained 429 views; and only 20 odd responses.Thats an awful lot of guys prolly checkin there numbers against others and I fear that many others have low numbers.

There is a chronic lack of self esteem within many men. What is goin on here?

I leave with you with an old school rolling stones video to watch. Mick Jagger has had 5 kids since this video was made, and probably hundreds of women. Although we are not front men of Rock and Roll, we can gain many useful insights into womanising from the old campaigner - just move like Jagger..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYvy3kBYN4Q Go forth and multiply!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TonyBaloney said:
If you dont mind me asking Neil, I do remember you once mentioning that you had an ex pass away. Please do not get offended, I am only asking through interest and sympathy, but did that cause an attachement issue?

I had the love of my life once return to her home country of Norway after she had a couple of family bereavements. Killed me inside and have never really recovered from it.


ZERO. For 2011 and 2012. True story.

Wow NN, Seriously? I thought you would be posting a high number. Why is this? A jealous ex didnt give you a castration/penectomy? ;)

Yes. Seriously. Pvssy doesn't control my life and I see no need to prove anything to anyone. I pretty much like my own peace and quiet and live my life. I get hit on a lot by chicks especially when I work my part time second job and people still can't believe my age so I don't sweat it.

I'm the type who would rather have a relationship than one nighters, fwb, plates or deal with nonsense. When I do get into a relationship....the chick knows I have no use for cheating period. It serves me no purpose. Because I'm completely confident in myself if things don't work out to go my own way and move on without looking back (full blown NC) only learning from the experience.

Though most chicks minds are blown when I tell them I'm not married and don't have a girlfriend. They think I'm a slvt. LMAO.
 

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3, 2 of them rawdog.

Actually they were nothing special(more or the less in the 6 range) that would make you turn your head around, but I had make out sessions and dirty foreplays in club with hotties that would make men do marriage proposals.
 

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0. I don't give pvssy power.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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15 this year.

But even though i have had a blast the last 8 months, i lost touch of "real life", i forgot about school, and actually failed an exam, for the first time ever.

Usually i am a straight A-student, but after my last break-up i just wanted to go nuts.

Pvssy kind of took control of my life; anyway, since i turned 20 yrs 4 days ago, i have made a promise to myself: Invest time in your future life, and the pvssy will come along all by itself.
 

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Only one so far, but she was hot.

Had a 22 year old really wanted to for her first time but I wasnt attracted and said no. Also didn't want to give her the satisfaction of doing it...haha.


TonyBaloney said:
What is with these DJ low figures???? Come on boys. The world is our oyster man!!!!!!

You gotta get on that poon more.....this post has gained 429 views; and only 20 odd responses.Thats an awful lot of guys prolly checkin there numbers against others and I fear that many others have low numbers.

There is a chronic lack of self esteem within many men. What is goin on here?
Not sure it's a lack of self esteem or confidence. You could have all the confidence in the world and be the greatest man, but people still have to buy what you are selling.
 

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One, but I'm in a LTR.

The important number should never be the number of girls you fvck, but how many times you actually fvck. Whether 4 lays = 4 girls or 4 lays = the same girl each time, it's all sex.
 

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Last year I had 35 but this year Im pouring my energy into my career so only 4. Just gonna chill out then get back into the game more next year:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zippapants said:
Only 1. Got out of a LTR with the only woman I was in love with in June, and been messed up since. Broke my foot in July, so things haven't been too easy getting around. Though I did go out to the club last weekend and my cast proved to be quite the hot topic of the night. Talked to a few girls but couldn't bring myself to make any moves. I felt guilty for some reason, and I was the one who was broken up with. Gotta change that.
I've been there man, don't let yourself beat your self-esteem down too far. If she was the real deal you'd still be together. Let yourself move on and put that b1tch out of your head NOW.


I've only been with 1 chick this past year, a few make-out sessions, man my game was rusty and self-esteem beaten + trying to work my ass off to make a business grow -- but man this has got to change! I'm hoping for 5 between July 2012 and July 2013...this would be a step up for me!
 
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