How many girls have you done, the poll

How many ladies

  • 0

    Votes: 81 26.6%
  • 1

    Votes: 34 11.2%
  • 2

    Votes: 26 8.6%
  • 3-5

    Votes: 48 15.8%
  • 6-10

    Votes: 25 8.2%
  • 11-20

    Votes: 45 14.8%
  • 21-40

    Votes: 21 6.9%
  • 41-70

    Votes: 11 3.6%
  • 71-99

    Votes: 3 1.0%
  • 100+

    Votes: 10 3.3%

  • Total voters
    304

Magma

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Gangster Of Love said:
Propers to everyone being honest.

The next biggest, the 3-5, interesting too, not surprised. That is pretty average with what the average man will have in a lifetime.

Agreed. Props to the honesty. My question is ,GOL, do you have the numbers on average partners that a man will have in his lifetime? I would be interested in seeing them.

That could expose some of the underpinnings behind the numbers. The reason why my numbers are on the high end, for example, is that I am hopeless at LTR's. Never really had one for over 8 months or so. And I started having sex at a really young age (15), so I kicked things off early. But there are definitely a lot of guys that have had NOTHING BUT ltr's (or marriages), so they're numbers are going to be significantly lower.

If the number of avg partners in a man's life is around 3-5, what do you (not you specifically, but anyone) think that signifies? Do you think it signifies that more men are involved in committed, LTR's? Or do you think that it's just a case of guys not being able to get laid? Is the MATRIX somehow involved? Is this the result of the feminism of masculinity? Just posing some food for thought...

Great thread, btw. Thanks.
 

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I'm in the 41-70 range. I quit keeping track awhile back because it wasn't such a big deal anymore. Only 2 were fatties. 3-4 were EXTREMELY high quality (models, millionaires, etc.) Most were just random girls from clubs or that I met in college. It's actually slowed down recently because I focus more on quality and keeping girls around for at least a few months.

And no offense, but it doesn't surprise me 1/3 of the people here are virgins. Another major board I'm on had this poll a few months ago, and 25% there were virgins.There's a reason why they join these boards and there's nothing wrong with that. It's the virgins who try to give other people advice when they don't know what they're talking about that's a problem.

Agreed. Props to the honesty. My question is ,GOL, do you have the numbers on average partners that a man will have in his lifetime? I would be interested in seeing them.
I think the average is 9. The median is 7, I believe. I forgot the study, but if you google for awhile, you should find a few studies. Women come in 2-3 partners lower than men on average, which is interesting.
 

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Entropy4 said:
I'm in the 41-70 range. I quit keeping track awhile back because it wasn't such a big deal anymore. Only 2 were fatties. 3-4 were EXTREMELY high quality (models, millionaires, etc.) Most were just random girls from clubs or that I met in college. It's actually slowed down recently because I focus more on quality and keeping girls around for at least a few months.
Those are the keepers.
 

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Magma said:
This sounds really bad, but I used to keep a list of names of women that I boned and even rated them on a five star level. I stopped doing that after college, as I found it to be immature. I am in the 20-40 range, btw, and estimate my numbers somewhere around 25-30.

Um, not really one to talk about it I guess. 3/4 of those numbers happened in HS and college. Then I had two bad relationships after college that turned me into an AFC. The first one was pretty bad, and the second one I was an absolute AFC nightmare. I'm slowly getting back on track though and rediscovering my both my inner and outer game.

The nice thing is, I've had enough women to realize that pvssy is not the end all and be all of life...
I'm dong that also. I got a list of names and a brief description but I'm not reviewing any of them :D

I'm surprised that after having over 20 girls you could become an AFC. That defies all logic.


Magma said:
AIf the number of avg partners in a man's life is around 3-5, what do you (not you specifically, but anyone) think that signifies? Do you think it signifies that more men are involved in committed, LTR's? Or do you think that it's just a case of guys not being able to get laid? Is the MATRIX somehow involved? Is this the result of the feminism of masculinity? Just posing some food for thought...

Great thread, btw. Thanks.
I think the reason that the average is 3-5 (if that is still correct) is because the average man has about that many LTR's. He has a couple of girlfriends and gets married. Or I can use my Dad as an example. He married his first girlfriend, my Mom. They divorce and he has a couple of girlfriends afterward. Then he marries one of them and they've been married for 15 years. And that's 3-5. It may be a bit higher cause I'm not sure how many were between the first and second wives but it's just a rough example.

I don't think the average man goes around trying to get sex from random girls. My other guess is that it's because lots of guys are not able to get laid. Thats the whole reason that the seduction community exists. If guys could get laid whenever they wanted PUA's wouldn't exist, or more like everybody is one.

I would love to see this same poll but done with a more diverse population. The results are very skewed because of the kind of site this is.
 

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Maxtro said:
I'm surprised that after having over 20 girls you could become an AFC. That defies all logic.
Not at all, I've banged n x 20 women and I've still fallen into the AFC trap. I also have a friend who's been with probably around 500 women and I've seen him fall hard into the AFC trap.
 

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Maxtro said:
I'm surprised that after having over 20 girls you could become an AFC. That defies all logic.
Yes sir, you are totally correct. It DOES defy all logic. At least it would SEEM that way. I wrote an autobiographical essay that charted my progress from popular ass-crusher, to AFC, and back again. 'Twas a long and strange journey, sprinkled with addiction and a dash of depression for good measure. I'm still debating on posting that essay here in the forums.

All it took was one chick to fuk with my head so badly that it started an epic slide into AFC-ness. That's why I think I was in a unique situation when I found SS. I had the taste before, I just needed to reconnect with it. LIke I said to MacAvoy earlier in another thread: truth is sometimes stranger than fiction.
 

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One. It was kind of random but I got tired of being a virgin. Before then, I had kissed and made out with several girls while feeling them up. I'm a 25 year old man in dire need of more experience.
 

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It seems I still have a long way before I can understand the game.

It was my belief that once you get around having been with 20+ women you would be a certified pimp. You would have complete confidence in yourself and it would be ridiculous that you would think a woman could be above you. Every trick a woman throws at you would be seen through and dealt with accordingly. If that wasn't true than how is it possible to get that many women?

My theory is faulty though because I have never been in a real relationship and I've never truly gotten close to a woman. So I don't know what they are capable of.

Juan_Man, don't feel bad. I'm doubt your the only person who needs more experience. Being that 41% of men who voted have been with 1 or fewer women, it's obvious that you are not alone.
 

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Im in 21-40.. a few of them were classmates.. a few more girls I knew through friends.. one coworker.. and the rest were girls I macked at the club
 

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MacAvoy said:
Has there been a sudden spike in the 100+ responses or am I imagining things?
Looks like we got some quick learners on this site. ;)
 

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MacAvoy said:
I also have a friend who's been with probably around 500 women and I've seen him fall hard into the AFC trap.
How the fvck is this possible? Was he a porn star or was he rich and paid for alot of sex. 500 woman that to me is unimaginable, even if your a nightclub owner.
 

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HandyAndy said:
I lost count after 0 so...idk
Honesty is sexy. I will rep you for that.

Myself? 97. 3 more before I hit the big 100! Wish me luck :cheer:
 

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lookyoung said:
How the fvck is this possible? Was he a porn star or was he rich and paid for alot of sex. 500 woman that to me is unimaginable, even if your a nightclub owner.
He was an alpha male and a natural with women. I'm estimating the number but I know its really really high. On any given night that he goes to the bar, he brings a women home if he wants to. He just makes them laugh and instantly builds rapport. I've seen him walk up to women and within 2 minutes ask them if they want to fvck and they agree.

We also worked in a building with 3000 people and 95% were women so he constantly was chatting them up. He was probably the most influential person in my sex life, I met him when I was 16, I was a summer student working for him and he took me under his wing both professionally and personally.

He's a great guy, when I first met him, he was short & balding but funny as hell. In college, I had buddies who could pick up 2-3 chicks a week easily, partially because college girls feel its their time to fvck around, but if your good at it, its not that hard to do 2-3 chicks a week.

2.5 x 52 wks x 20 years = 2600. Now he was obviously in LTR's at different times but if your a natural, its not hard. Now 99% of us are not naturals so its hard to imagine but I've seen it with my eyes so I believe it.
 

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I've been a bartender for 7 years in a medium large club. you do the math
 

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It was my belief that once you get around having been with 20+ women you would be a certified pimp. You would have complete confidence in yourself and it would be ridiculous that you would think a woman could be above you. Every trick a woman throws at you would be seen through and dealt with accordingly.
I Wish! lol
 

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wallycleaver said:
Honesty is sexy. I will rep you for that.

Myself? 97. 3 more before I hit the big 100! Wish me luck :cheer:
Sorry, didnt notice this, thanks :)

Edit: I just realized he was banned.... :crazy:
 
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