"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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zinc64

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After reading these threads, I am curious as to what some of the posters experiences entail. This is not a thread to brag or to be ashamed off....it's merely to let other posters know your experience level.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Somewhere in the high 20s. Not really sure to be honest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pingpongz

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im 18

Ive ****ed 7 girls...

As regards kissing girls i have no idea ... id estimate 80+
Last thursday was good... went to a club... kissed 4 girls and ****ed 1 of them got 3 number ... great success :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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8, I'm 22. 6 of those have been in the last year or so since i have started coming here.

The first 2 were mercy AFC ****s, I stayed around long enough I finally landed them.
 

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Poor bunny

I'm at six. Three of those were getting lucky. The other three were uh true desperation. It's been over a year since my last lay.
 

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My goal when I fist logged on here was to get to 50, which I was able to acheive so I stopped counting shortly thereafter. I wish I could say it didn't matter and all guys need to do is just pretend it doesn't matter. However for me that's not true. The numbers did do a lot for me and without them I don't think I ever could've stopped being a validation seeker through sex with women.

However nowdays I onlyfvck when I want to experience something new, interesting, or with a regular. Basically for a woman to get me in bed now she has to win me over with looks &attitude or offer me something novel like crazy sex with 2 other women or claim to be a squirter or something.
 

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everywomanshero said:
My goal when I fist logged on here was to get to 50, which I was able to acheive so I stopped counting shortly thereafter. I wish I could say it didn't matter and all guys need to do is just pretend it doesn't matter. However for me that's not true. The numbers did do a lot for me and without them I don't think I ever could've stopped being a validation seeker through sex with women.

However nowdays I onlyfvck when I want to experience something new, interesting, or with a regular. Basically for a woman to get me in bed now she has to win me over with looks &attitude or offer me something novel like crazy sex with 2 other women or claim to be a squirter or something.
you like them classy girls. i can tell.

you guys take pictures of all the girls you have banged? i am making a collage of sorts of the ladies i have fornicated with.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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everywomanshero said:
However nowdays I onlyfvck when I want to experience something new, interesting, or with a regular. Basically for a woman to get me in bed now she has to win me over with looks &attitude or offer me something novel like crazy sex with 2 other women or claim to be a squirter or something.

this my friends is a dj. i totally understand and respect where he's comin from.
 

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I've been with enough.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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