PRMoon
Master Don Juan
LOL now wouldn't that be a line!! No I was desribing the lifestyle not my occupation.Charm said:Is that what you tell them? That your a cowboy rockstar?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL now wouldn't that be a line!! No I was desribing the lifestyle not my occupation.Charm said:Is that what you tell them? That your a cowboy rockstar?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
were you messin around with ugly chicks?...seriously...i don't get it...aren't you married?...and why not?!?!?!...that goes to everyone who just goes from one chick after another...i mean if the girl is hot and you two get along why not stay with her? i'm confusedPRMoon said:True players don't need to keep count...well that's what i tell myself since I can't even remember all of my encounters. I've ended up in so many hotel rooms and vip suites with girls I met hours before then dashed out while the girl was in the bathroom or the like. I can't tell you how many people I've slept with but it's definately between 50 and 100 we'll say since I became sexually active. The bulk of it happened in the last 5 to 6 years while living this cowboy/rockstar life in vegas.
I think that is impossible. No way banging a girl on more than 50% when he sarges?????? I don't know about that. There is no way in hell I could do that. Maybe makeout with a girl over 50% of the time. But take one home.L777 said:I'm not gonna say how many...I think thats a bit sad, but in response to your question "Is it possible for a 'regular' guy to bang 100 girls? Well I read on a prominent fast seduction website, a certain tall, rocker-style PUA with a movie character name expects to bang a new girl MORE THAN 50% of the nights he sarges....you do the maths.
I wanna be just like that....just imagine![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What the hell?! Who are you and where are you coming up with this information? When have I ever posted on this site that I'm married? I'm not even in a serious relationship. Ugly chicks? Why would I do that to myself? I'm an attractive male living in Sin City. I'll admit they haven't all been superstars but the majority of them have been high quality.vagrant said:were you messin around with ugly chicks?...seriously...i don't get it...aren't you married?...and why not?!?!?!...that goes to everyone who just goes from one chick after another...i mean if the girl is hot and you two get along why not stay with her? i'm confused
man step out of the cage of LTR paranoia, why so keen to settle down and get shacked up?vagrant said:were you messin around with ugly chicks?...seriously...i don't get it...aren't you married?...and why not?!?!?!...that goes to everyone who just goes from one chick after another...i mean if the girl is hot and you two get along why not stay with her? i'm confused
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
6-heads lewis said:latinoman, i havent read your post yet, all ive read was your implication that i was insulting you and cowardly avoiding confrontation
i havent read all the posts in this thread, including yours. i dont recall reading any of your previous posts in any thread actually, i have no opinion on you as a person either way.
it was commentary on my experience with males in real life and on this forum. its generally younger males aged 18-24 who somehow need to justify their lack of experience with women. i've been down this road of self delusion myself, its just an easy way of coping with failure. but its unhealthy, and the inevitable acceptance of reality can lead to mental breakdowns and severe depression if delayed for too long. i find self-deprecating humor to be almost as good and healthier. suicide rates are the highest in males in this age group, and sexual frustration and rejection certainly contribute.
to reitarate, i dont know you or have any opinions of you. i havent read your comments in this thread or in any thread, and wasnt directing my comments at anyone in particular.
Hey man thanks for the laugh, watch the thread like a hawk. LOL funnymusclyjerk said:That's like asking what the length of our shlongs are - some will add a few inches, the ones confident of their huge member will put you shame and then there's those like me who prefer not to discuss numbers but will watch the thread like a hawk.
I think the universal answer is: Not enough!
The Muscly Jerk
No offence but that sounds like bullsh!t excuser nonsense to me.Latinoman said:Here is the thing…it takes time to understand a woman’s body as no every woman is the same. In fact, it takes time for that particular woman to understand their own body (that’s why sometimes it can be a little difficult to get a very young woman to reach climax by straight intercourse). Therefore, going through a series of one night stands can only make you a great “PUA”…but not a great lover. Sure, some women might enjoy it as it is more of the excitement of the thrill. But that might be it.
Here is the problem…when finally you start getting into “relationships” (serious or non-serious)…the fact that you lacked the experience on how to deal with the “exploratory” process of the woman body is going to become evident.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Oh noes! But I REALLY REALLY want some beer-swilling slob to pay attention to me! What's the point in having sex with women if I can't boast about it in over a beer!Everyone here whos honest knows exactly which one is worth putting your beer down to pay attention to.
Hey dude don't worry 12 aint that bad. I was reading that 11 girls is average so your above average. Plenty of time for you to catch up. The only thing I notice is that once you hit 30 sarging aint as fun as it used to be. Actually since I hit 29 it ain't the same.logicallefty said:12 women here.. Was in LTR or married throughout my whole twenties, so I am behind for my age..
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.