"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How many girls do you maintain at once?

drexler

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I find that it is difficult to maintain too many girls at once (not necessarily gf's but atleast girls you sleep with consistently). Not just due to the logistics invloved but also the emotional stress. If you guys can maintain more than two or three girls how do you manage it? I am currently in the lucky dilema of having too many new and phone numbers to followup on given the current number of girls I'm already spending time with and my limited free time. I hate to let numbers go stale and ruin the oppurtunity for later when I may need it. Do you guys ever take time off from sarging new prospects due to lack of time and resources to take on new girls? Or do you tend to upgrade whenever possible and only followup new targets if they are superior to your current girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hadow Khan

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Don't spend much time with any one girl.

I don't do the relationship thing, I prefer to just kinda drift around. I usually work 2 girls simultaneously while keeping a 3rd on the back burner. When one goes back, rotate the 3rd girl in.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't laugh, but I have a database in my cell which not only displays their picture when they call, but also their personal information such as birthdays, names of pets, room mates, siblings, address, where we met and how plus other miscellaneous sh1t. When you keep several on rotation, you have to make them feel that you feel that they are at least special enough for you to remember certain things about them. It's only a pain when you are sarging women with the same first name.
 

Point Blank

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On a regular basis, half-a-dozen to a dozen.
 
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