Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anywhere from 2-10.JdelaSilviera said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If I remember correctly the 20% is the ratio of same night lays (SNL) that PUA's can get. It boils down to 2 girls out of 10 approaches or needing 5 approaches to get 1 girl. Giving the average man a 2% success ratio seems a bit low. So out of 10 girls he will get 0.2 of them or needs to approach 50 women to get 1.Kal0051 said:
Captain Jack? This him?thefonz said:
why do people always say this? do you not see every article on the main page talking about attracting women? even the description under the forum titles talk about attracting women. where oh where does it say anywhere this site is about becoming a better man and self-improvement? guys come to this site to learn how to get chicks period. becoming a better man is also very important but its not like this site teaches you that.DJ_Hero said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
THIS^^thefonz said:
you get chicks by becoming a better and improved "man"actionjaxson said:
Guys come here to learn how to get women, but it's all a trick to get you here and make you self improve.