how many fb friends to become an attention wh-ore?

[pyros]

I've added a couple of girls lately, both were around 20, and I noticed that they had more than 1500 friends on fb which is A TON. They are not actresses, nor singers or any kind of celebrities, so the fact that they have so many ppl added as friends signals that they are huge attention wh-ores, at least from my perspective.
I have around 180 friends on FB, btw, and I read in some study that the average number is between 150 and 200 for the average, normal person. And ppl just keep real contact with less than 30 of these 'friends'.

So...what do you think? attention wh-ores for sure?
have you ever dated a chick with so many contacts on her fb???
are these chicks fvcked up in the head?

 

[Reservoir Dog]

If you have a facebook account you are an attention wh0re. It doesn't matter if you have one or one thousand friends. That's the way it is. Don't hate the playa. Hate the game. Deal with it. If you don't like attention wh0res deactivate your facebook account and stop fishing for attention.

 

[Konada]

A better gauge would be to see what material they post on FB. I myself have 400+ friends but I can count with my 2 bare hands the amount I really keep in contact with.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Facebook doesn't make attention wh0res, it makes them more obvious to the rest of us.

I know women who are big attention wh0res that have around 100-250 friends, I also know one that's much worse who has only about 30 or so. So the number of friends isn't that big of an indicator unless they have 1000+ like the ones that you're talking about. Attention wh0res do the same s**t regardless of follower count. But the 1000+ friends makes it perfectly clear the way they are.

You really need to stop chasing this type of woman. You aren't going to be able to make it work in your favor long term with her. Women who are obsessive with social media are indeed attention wh0res, and you aren't going to be able to change them, and typically you won't be able to get the odds to work, especially if you don't know them in person.

The only time you can ever do well with these types is if you're continually around them with it being incidential. What I mean by incidential is having the same group/class, working together, or other means of just so happening to be around this person, incidential is NOT "bumping into" her at her job. But here's the thing, you have to pretty much ignore them by showing that you aren't going to validate like the other guys, flirt and talk a little ONLY when you have a chance and reason to do so while NEVER going out of the way, and she'll come to you after awhile. That takes time, usually two months or so before she notices "hey, this guy doesn't act like he wants to fvck me like the other dudes. I'm attracted now."

When that happens you have to pretty much act immediately, or it's over. Even then she's going to get board quick because the thrill of getting a "hard to get" guy wears off, and she'll quickly go onto the next one.

In all it's just not worth it. Even when playing it smooth you're still wasting time and energy worrying about a type that you know is trouble, and not worth it. So what if she's pretty? There's much better acting women who aren't like this.

 

[ubercat]

ZB nailed it. Repped