"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many fallen bootcamp soldiers?

Swoop

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It seems like alot has already drop off. How many did we lose? I can't say I blame them, it isn't easy. On some days, I feel like I'm barely crawling through the obstacles. But I know that I have to get through it one way or another, just so I can honestly say I tried.

To those who drop off: Maybe next time, we'll see you back on course.

To those who are still in it with me: Give me a shout out! Let's carry each other through it.

Your comrade,
Swoop
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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During my time here, I don't think anyone have finished the bootcamp.
 

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where do i start with bootcamp? when's the next session start?
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
During my time here, I don't think anyone have finished the bootcamp.
For realz? Wow. Yea no doubt this bootcamp stuff is tough. I'm half way through it, easy part is finish and now the hard part. I intend to finish it but I realize that it's gonna take alot of heart to complete it.
 

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Originally posted by dadood
where do i start with bootcamp? when's the next session start?
Well, I'm not sure when they'll have the next session just depends on whoever wants to organize one. But really you can go through the bootcamp on your own, just record your progress in the forum. I know going thru it by yourself is probably extremely difficult. No one to motivate you but yourself. But really you don't need anyone if you are very determine. But a better idea is you can organize one and ask people if they want to go through it with you, I think there are a few guys here that have just started their own bootcamp, just ask them to join up with you and you guys can have your own little bootcamp.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As I recall, I have only read about one person who actually completed the full DJ boot camp. From reading his journal, he went from being deathly afraid of approaching and getting women to having 2-3 FBs and dating another 2-3 girls on the side as well.

What I am wondering is how many other people, if any have managed to make it past week 5 of the boot camp
 

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Originally posted by Doc73
As I recall, I have only read about one person who actually completed the full DJ boot camp. From reading his journal, he went from being deathly afraid of approaching and getting women to having 2-3 FBs and dating another 2-3 girls on the side as well.

What I am wondering is how many other people, if any have managed to make it past week 5 of the boot camp
we are in week 4, and a hand full of us are looking strong. So week 5 would be the best week. It's the make or break it moment now. I think we can do it though and set a bootcamp record of dj soldiers making it.
 
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