Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
sca_p said:Wow. My girl and I have been together for three years and have never had sex.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What's so weird about it? If I wanted sex, I'd hook up with some random club slut. We're not in it for the sex. We don't need it to stay attracted to each other, and if I get hot then that's what my right hand's for.Serialized3 said:WTF?
Is she a virgin?...sca_p said:What's so weird about it? If I wanted sex, I'd hook up with some random club slut. We're not in it for the sex. We don't need it to stay attracted to each other, and if I get hot then that's what my right hand's for.