"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HOw many dates before you make her your girlfriend?

prince157

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hi, there is this girl I really like weve been talkn for a couple weeks and really only kicked it one time. We talk on the phone everyday, and I think we really have a good connection. I want to make her my girlfriend, but I don't know when I should ask, or in other words how many dates would I have to go one before I ask, or how long do I have to wait?? Im not sure really what the process is, but I just want to make sure I don't ask her too early when shes not ready and too late when it really doesn't matter. So what should i do??? THank You!!!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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usually if i liked someone and i wants her to be my gf , i ask her after 5-6 dates..so i know if we have a good connection , then ..more than 4 dates and she still go out with you is a sign that she likes u!!...:D :D
 

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If it's me i've usually done a good bit of predating research on the girl. I'll know how interested she is, whether or not she's good girlfriend material, her history through her firends, etc etc.

To awnser your question I'll make a girl my girlfiend after the first date, if I've gone through a that little song and dance before hand. I know what I like and what I can deal with.
 
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