"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many dates before an invite to your place?

Falcon25

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Duffdog said:
No... you are wrong. And sort of gay, but thats besides the point. Pretty much all hot girls want to know how you are in bed from the 1st moment they talk to you.

Here is how it really works in my world: Girls are willing to go out with me on the first date for one reason...that is to see if I am good in bed with them. If I am good, they answer my phone calls and want to spend more time with me. If I am bad, they do not. The last 30 girls I met simply expected to be having sex with me by 3am on our first date. The caveat is that this only works for hot girls. I don't really remember anything about average chics or normal chics from when I was younger. But consider this: If you were a hot girl and could have anything you wanted, what would you want? Most hot girls have already been nailed by 80+ guys before you go to her-- so they already have an idea what they like. First, the girls pick out the guys who are what they want to look at, then the guys who are good in bed, then after going through that, they look for other things like money, status, etc. and finally, after all the other prerequisites have been satisfied, they look for a connection, whatever the hell that means. BUT, it does not go the other way (as everyone on this forum has discovered) You cannot appeal to a girls emotional side until you satisfy her physical urges first. If you try, you will be one of the millions of guys who "has a girlfriend" that likes to sleep with other guys when he's not around...
Listen divkhead,

I was referring to having a relationship with a woman. Not getting laid. THE ANTICIPATION is key to wrapping a woman's heart. Any fool can get laid. All you have to do is be handsome, or play your cards right, or have good timing. But the most difficult thing to do is to capture a woman's heart. If you had sex with her early, she can get rid of you easier. She HAS NOTHING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN YOU. This advice was for the guy wanting a GIRLFRIEND. Before you call me gay, read my entire ****ing post stupid ass.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Falcon25 said:
Listen divkhead,

I was referring to having a relationship with a woman. Not getting laid. THE ANTICIPATION is key to wrapping a woman's heart. Any fool can get laid. All you have to do is be handsome, or play your cards right, or have good timing. But the most difficult thing to do is to capture a woman's heart. If you had sex with her early, she can get rid of you easier. She HAS NOTHING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN YOU. This advice was for the guy wanting a GIRLFRIEND. Before you call me gay, read my entire ****ing post stupid ass.
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