"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How many dates before an invite to your place?

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Duffdog said:
No... you are wrong. And sort of gay, but thats besides the point. Pretty much all hot girls want to know how you are in bed from the 1st moment they talk to you.

Here is how it really works in my world: Girls are willing to go out with me on the first date for one reason...that is to see if I am good in bed with them. If I am good, they answer my phone calls and want to spend more time with me. If I am bad, they do not. The last 30 girls I met simply expected to be having sex with me by 3am on our first date. The caveat is that this only works for hot girls. I don't really remember anything about average chics or normal chics from when I was younger. But consider this: If you were a hot girl and could have anything you wanted, what would you want? Most hot girls have already been nailed by 80+ guys before you go to her-- so they already have an idea what they like. First, the girls pick out the guys who are what they want to look at, then the guys who are good in bed, then after going through that, they look for other things like money, status, etc. and finally, after all the other prerequisites have been satisfied, they look for a connection, whatever the hell that means. BUT, it does not go the other way (as everyone on this forum has discovered) You cannot appeal to a girls emotional side until you satisfy her physical urges first. If you try, you will be one of the millions of guys who "has a girlfriend" that likes to sleep with other guys when he's not around...
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Listen divkhead,

I was referring to having a relationship with a woman. Not getting laid. THE ANTICIPATION is key to wrapping a woman's heart. Any fool can get laid. All you have to do is be handsome, or play your cards right, or have good timing. But the most difficult thing to do is to capture a woman's heart. If you had sex with her early, she can get rid of you easier. She HAS NOTHING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN YOU. This advice was for the guy wanting a GIRLFRIEND. Before you call me gay, read my entire ****ing post stupid ass.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Falcon25 said:
Listen divkhead,

I was referring to having a relationship with a woman. Not getting laid. THE ANTICIPATION is key to wrapping a woman's heart. Any fool can get laid. All you have to do is be handsome, or play your cards right, or have good timing. But the most difficult thing to do is to capture a woman's heart. If you had sex with her early, she can get rid of you easier. She HAS NOTHING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN YOU. This advice was for the guy wanting a GIRLFRIEND. Before you call me gay, read my entire ****ing post stupid ass.
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