"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Many Cities Have You Lived In?

How many cities have you lived in?

  • 1

    Votes: 3 15.8%

  • 2

    Votes: 3 15.8%

  • 3

    Votes: 4 21.1%

  • 4-9

    Votes: 4 21.1%

  • 10-14

    Votes: 3 15.8%

  • 15-19

    Votes: 1 5.3%

  • 20-24

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 25+

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • Total voters
    19
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I'm curious how many cities the DJ's have lived in.

Nothing seasons a DJ like moving to a new city. I have lived in 12 US states, including 10 in the past 12 years. I've also been to at least 7 countries.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I will assume those who viewed this but did not respond only lived in 1 city. If you're still in the city you went to high school in, your DJ perspective and success rate will be dramatically impacted. Popularity in a town is one of the most attractive qualities in a man, but it's not portable. Get away from there.
 
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Ha! Timely post, but you already know my situation.

It'd be nice to bump my number up to at least 4 or 5 by the time I hit 40, assuming I don't fall hard for any one particular city.
 
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Neil, what's with the single unit increments and then five unit increments? :trouble: That's quite a jump in there!
 
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bigneil said:
I will assume those who viewed this but did not respond only lived in 1 city. If you're still in the city you went to high school in, your DJ perspective and success rate will be dramatically impacted. Popularity in a town is one of the most attractive qualities in a man, but it's not portable. Get away from there.
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This it's highly artificial. It pretty much makes you a pineapple that only thrives in a specific shaded area in the columbian mts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I used to throw the biggest parties, back when I lived in my favorite town in my home state of MA (1998-2002). I would invite every beautiful girl I saw for 2 weeks prior. 60 gorgeous women would show up, 80 people on average. I served homemade pizza, organic salsa, guacamole and the best wine. Everyone was welcome. I never had a bad incident after 13 parties. It was the best way to score. When multiple women who like you are in the same room together, they all suddenly love you. Those were the days.

On the road you can't have parties, sadly.
 
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Two bigger metro areas, one in Illinois and one in Wisconsin.

But within the same metro area in Illinois I have lived 10 different places, the longest at one being 15 years, and the shortest being 3 months.
 
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