That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
GotED? said:If you are with a woman who has HIGH INTEREST in you, the attraction should not expire regardless of ALMOST anything you do. A woman who is REALLY into you, you really can DO NO WRONG.
Exodus
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'd even wager that you can make them wait longer than a month. See a high IL chick once every couple weeks and continue to escalate each time (without culminating in a kiss) and she'll want to fvck your brains out.VladPatton said:ED's right, it's pretty interest-related. If she's very attracted to you you can make the bıtch wait a month. It'll send her into a frothy foam! If she thinks not too highly of you and just said yes to a date with you out of boredom, then you can try to kiss her 10mins or 10 hours into your first date and you'll get the cheek. Choose wisely who you ask out.