“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How many chances will a girl give you to kiss her?
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GS750
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When you're feeling it. Some will say during the first date, some will say before the end of the first date, before the end of the second date, etc. You can gauge if she's open to being kissed. Just have to sack up and go for it. If you do not make a move at some point she will think you are either gay, weird, or too chicken sh*t to make a move. Hence, you will friendzone yourself.
Night-hawk
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Like this http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EkFV_sAOkWo
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If you are with a woman who has HIGH INTEREST in you, the attraction should not expire regardless of ALMOST anything you do. A woman who is REALLY into you, you really can DO NO WRONG.
I live the philosophy of ANTI-DUMP's Machine (see DJ Bible), even before I read his stuff. I make the woman WAIT for the first kiss, I make the woman wait for the kino escalation from me, I make the woman WAIT for the SECKS.
I make a woman PROVE to me that she is worth my time and energy BEFORE I decide to emotionally invest in her. I usually don't even kiss a woman until after the THIRD date or later, there is no rule: When I FEEL like I want to kiss her, she will know. This is my frame established in the beginning, and she knows to either follow it, or get a move on out of my life.
When you are DESPERATE and NEEDY for that physical escalation, you have just stepped INTO HER FRAME and LOST YOURS, and she knows it fully. That is when you get the CHEEK kiss, or worse 'I am confused'. I take what I want when I am ready and she knows it, because she's waited long enough. Also, I have a 'Player' like outer appearance (inner nice guy) - so I can not be aggressive PHYSICALLY in the beginning or else she will indeed THINK I AM A PLAYER. You have to consider many variables here on your game and appearance to women.
But realize I am also a LTR kind of guy, I don't deal with trash and I don't take out the garbage once a week either. I filter hard for high quality women, and a part of that process is I withhold my emotional investment until she proves to me she's worth it (and gives her time to undo her fear of me being a Player from initial impression).
Try it sometimes - it really does work (if she has high interest). If you are just out for ONS or hump & dump, do me a favor and ignore everything I wrote here. You will crash & burn. Different tactics and game for different end results.
Good luck.
Exodus
I live the philosophy of ANTI-DUMP's Machine (see DJ Bible), even before I read his stuff. I make the woman WAIT for the first kiss, I make the woman wait for the kino escalation from me, I make the woman WAIT for the SECKS.
I make a woman PROVE to me that she is worth my time and energy BEFORE I decide to emotionally invest in her. I usually don't even kiss a woman until after the THIRD date or later, there is no rule: When I FEEL like I want to kiss her, she will know. This is my frame established in the beginning, and she knows to either follow it, or get a move on out of my life.
When you are DESPERATE and NEEDY for that physical escalation, you have just stepped INTO HER FRAME and LOST YOURS, and she knows it fully. That is when you get the CHEEK kiss, or worse 'I am confused'. I take what I want when I am ready and she knows it, because she's waited long enough. Also, I have a 'Player' like outer appearance (inner nice guy) - so I can not be aggressive PHYSICALLY in the beginning or else she will indeed THINK I AM A PLAYER. You have to consider many variables here on your game and appearance to women.
But realize I am also a LTR kind of guy, I don't deal with trash and I don't take out the garbage once a week either. I filter hard for high quality women, and a part of that process is I withhold my emotional investment until she proves to me she's worth it (and gives her time to undo her fear of me being a Player from initial impression).
Try it sometimes - it really does work (if she has high interest). If you are just out for ONS or hump & dump, do me a favor and ignore everything I wrote here. You will crash & burn. Different tactics and game for different end results.
Good luck.
Exodus
GotED? said:
This. I know I'm not a pro yet, but if there's one thing I'm finding true over and over, whether it's me or other people, it's this.
I've seen guys take AGES to realize a girl is really into them, even with all the flirting. And eventually they end up banging because, despite the fact they were slow to pick up on it and it dragged on, the girl remained interested because she had high interest and he could do no wrong.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
VladPatton
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ED's right, it's pretty interest-related. If she's very attracted to you you can make the bıtch wait a month. It'll send her into a frothy foam! If she thinks not too highly of you and just said yes to a date with you out of boredom, then you can try to kiss her 10mins or 10 hours into your first date and you'll get the cheek. Choose wisely who you ask out.
I'd even wager that you can make them wait longer than a month. See a high IL chick once every couple weeks and continue to escalate each time (without culminating in a kiss) and she'll want to fvck your brains out.VladPatton said: