"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigjohnson said:
The SCOTUS has respectfully begged to disagree with you. OMG! :rolleyes:


You're trying a classic strawman argument here. All I said is that the 2nd is not about hunting or hobby use, it's about citizens protecting themselves with a specific point made (not by ME, by the framers for godsake) of discussing "security of a free State".

Go argue with THEM if you don't like it, I'm just repeating the facts man.
Actually you said that teh second amendment was about a citizen army. But I guess you just chose to ignore that. Oh well, ya just cant discuss with some people.


thedeparted said:
since that's exactly the type of gun that Obama wants to ban.
Im glad you are doing it solely out of spite.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In Motion said:
Actually you said that teh second amendment was about a citizen army. But I guess you just chose to ignore that.
Did you read the SCOTUS judgment? Have a look please.
 
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Did you read the SCOTUS judgment? Have a look please.

bigjohnson, I guess you were right about my usage of "assault rifle." I just assumed that that was what AR stood for. Plus, everybody I know refers to them as such.

On another note, I'm pretty sure guys like In Motion are anti-gun because they fear what they don't understand.

I think I'm going to get the H&K USP instead of the Sig, btw.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
bigjohnson, I guess you were right about my usage of "assault rifle." I just assumed that that was what AR stood for. Plus, everybody I know refers to them as such.
Yes you're right it's a very common misuse. Sorry if I was abrasive but I'm glad you know the difference now. It shouldn't matter but the term has been demonized such that any weapon referred to in that way falls under a sort of cloud.

I like my Glocks (AKA Blocks), but if the large grips don't fit you then the USP is a good choice as well. I also like the Springfield XD series, you might give them a glance. All my Glocks and the XD-45 have been stone reliable.

If you are thinking of carry the Kahr pistols are likely a better mix of capability vs size. I like the XX-4044 lines, particularly the KP-4044.
 
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bigjohnson said:
I like my Glocks (AKA Blocks), but if the large grips don't fit you then the USP is a good choice as well. I also like the Springfield XD series, you might give them a glance. All my Glocks and the XD-45 have been stone reliable.

If you are thinking of carry the Kahr pistols are likely a better mix of capability vs size. I like the XX-4044 lines, particularly the KP-4044.
I actually already have a Glock 23 for CC. The reason I'm shopping is because I have a little bit of money to blow and I really like the H&Ks. You're actually not the first person to recommend Kahr to me. I might have to check them out, as well. I do like the ergonomics of the XD; affordable too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I actually already have a Glock 23 for CC. The reason I'm shopping is because I have a little bit of money to blow and I really like the H&Ks. You're actually not the first person to recommend Kahr to me. I might have to check them out, as well. I do like the ergonomics of the XD; affordable too.

One of my Glocks is a G32 which is the same frame as your 23 but chambered for 357 Sig.

Love that thing.

I had a SS frame Kahr and it was awesome but sort of heavy for a waistband carry scenario so I gave it to my Dad as a pocket gun. The KP is polymer frame and quite a lot lighter, give it a look. The 4044 is all stainless but they add a black finish over it, which I prefer. I think the number for bare stainless (which will not rub out in places like the black will) is 4043 but don't hold me to that.

The poly Kahr is on my personal want list.
 
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