Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how loyal are you guys once youre in a relationship?

powpow

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so like my personal opinion on relationships is to make it as special as you can for both you and your partner. there is a lot of benefits which come with being in a relationship. like bl0wjobs, your girl making you lunch for school, and just the overall good feeling of being wanted.

but in the end, when it comes down to it, I feel that if I see something better, I will pursue it. If I don't, then it is like a waste.

I am pursuing the best genetics to mother my children. hybrid babies. to give them the very best genes.

is it acceptable to do this? like do girls expect a guy does this? not all people are in a relationship to get married, or I don't think they are. what's the general rules on this stuff?

sorry if this is not a good question. I am pretty much a moralless, heartless, bipolar trainwreck of a human being, so sometimes I don't have the luxury of an innate moral compass like many of you here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SJ413

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powpow said:
I am pretty much a moralless, heartless, bipolar trainwreck of a human being, so sometimes I don't have the luxury of an innate moral compass like many of you here.
Consider yourself lucky then.
 

zekko

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I'm probably loyal to a fault. I always worry about hurting the girl. Now I'd say the official SoSuave response to that is "Women sure as hell don't care about our feelings when they want to dump us, why should we?". And I must admit that's a pretty good point.

The RSD response to this is along the lines of "You're afraid of hurting her? Get over yourself, you're not that important. Her life will go on.".
 

sageproduct

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I think that you are a scumbag.

I couldn't get less of a sh1t about "morals" or "guilt". I just hate seeing girls get hurt.

Actually rewind for a sec. If you're talking about cheating, then I stand by the above, and say that NO it is NOT to be expected.

But if you're talking about branch swinging, that's a different story.
 

Zarky

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I don't really give a sh*t, I date multiple women all the time and will until the day I die. I've had women find out and cry about it but not once has a girl ever left me because of it. Women expect desirable men to be banging different women as long as it's not thrown in their faces. See my blog for more info.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scars

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I only cheat when I get bored, suspect the girl of cheating first, or I want to "break-up". It's so much easier to keep fvcking what's available and other chicks that come along until you get caught and they break it off themselves then go through the whole "talk". But that's just me.

-Scars
 
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