"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many buttons do you leave unbuttoned when you wear a shirt that buttons up. Excluding polos.

If you didn't get that then read it twice.

Do you wear an undershirt ?

Personally, I like to show some cleavage(spl) and do not wear an undershirt.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wear an undershirt it looks tacky without one, like a mexican or something, no ofense to anyone, im half mexican....but anywayz leave about 2-3 depending on the shirt some are different. and if you cant find a good matching undershrit to match a color on your shirt then make sure your white sure is white and clean no sweat stains....never know when you have to take clothing off
Im Out
Mr. Larry aka Captain Popular
 
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Two from the top and one from the bottom. Wear an undershirt, I usually wear some coloured ****.
 
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If you have a nice body, and it's nice weather, don't wear an undershirt and leave 2 buttons open on top. If your a skinny ass bastard wear 2 t-shirts so it looks like you got some bulk under there. And no matter how nice your body is, don't wear one of those extra-smedium shirts that barely fits. Believe me, girls like when you leave something to the imagination....... they're not like us.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
If you have a nice body, and it's nice weather, don't wear an undershirt and leave 2 buttons open on top. If your a skinny ass bastard wear 2 t-shirts so it looks like you got some bulk under there. And no matter how nice your body is, don't wear one of those extra-smedium shirts that barely fits. Believe me, girls like when you leave something to the imagination....... they're not like us.
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Where is your support for that last statement?

Most girls seem to like guys in tight-shirts from what I gather. Hell, I've heard them complaining about the idiots wearing baggy ****.
 
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personally, I don't think you really need to MATCH the undershirt. I usually wear a simple white undershirt over any colored flannel. As for the buttoning, I'd say leave the top 2 (excluding the neck) unbuttoned. It works well.
 
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I just disagree with an undershirt. To each their own.

To me, i have a better looking chest than some women, why would I want to hide it. It's not that i'm a big mofo either, 5'11 180lbs. I keep a decent tan too.
 
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The casual look is two on the top and one on the bottom. Don't listen to people who say it's faggy or what not...it looks good that way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've noticed that wearing undershirts is quite an American thing. I work with alot of American guys in London and they are the only ones that wear t-shirts under their work shirts.

I remember hearing once that showing abit of your chest, just under your throut, where your colar bones meet is suposed to be some kind of display of sexuality. Abit like what animals in the wild using certain features to attract mates. Not sure how much of it is true though,

The most important thing is that you are comfortable in what you are wearing. If you have strong game, it really really doesnt matter what you are wearing.
 
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Personally I think leaving two buttons is good, unless it's for a more formal situation, where two buttons would be too "flirty".

Again it also depends on whether you wear undershirts/tshirts or not. If you do, two buttons woul be ok in any situation, just one would be kinda weird.

I've noticed that wearing undershirts is quite an American thing. I work with alot of American guys in London and they are the only ones that wear t-shirts under their work shirts.
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Yup, Fash you are absolutely right! When I just went back to Paris from the States more than one year ago, I used to wear white t-shirts under my shirts. The cuties from my classes told me that it looked really gross: in Europe, only unsophisticated people or NERDY ENGINEERING GUYS :eek: :confused: :eek: would wear t-shirts under their shirts.

And it looks like most shirts you can buy in Europe are somewhat "thin". I mean by that if you wear a t-shirt or an undershirt, you would be able to notice it, not really aesthetic right?

So bottom line for the US: two buttons with undershirt, but make sure that you undershirt/t-shirt doesn't show through your shirt.
 
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Originally posted by Le Parisien
NERDY ENGINEERING GUYS :eek: :confused: :eek: would wear t-shirts under their shirts.
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What are you trying to say bro ? :)

I'm sticking with my guns on this one. No under shirt.
 
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I'm trying to say "stick to your guns" on this one!:D

Without undershirt/t-shirt, you are on the "safe" side, whether in the States or not.

I mentioned the engineering guys comment because this is one of the girls' comments that hit me a little since I'm an ex-engineering guy who switched to marketing sometime back. Although I was dressed sharp to the american standards but obviously the ladies didn't think the same way, and the european more metrosexual trends seemed more appealing.

Anyway, enough of my personal story. Nice shirt, no undershirt, with a nice fit upperbody (not necessarily bulk though) works wonder everywhere...
:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I understood what you were saying.

I was trying to be humorous. I guess I need to work on that but by golly i can work a math problem.
 
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