How long would it take the girl to lose interest?

[Avn_0903]

The girl I'm currently gaming went back home in China for the summer. Before leaving her interest was quite high (staring at me from far away, wait for me after the finals even I didn't ask her to...). We won't see each other for 3 months. Do you think after 3 months of no contact, she would lose interest?

Also, this girl is very weird. One day her interest level shot through the roof, 2 days later she was already acting distant and I was being needy or anything. So things kept going like that and it's kinda fuking my head up. So I'm thinking this girl is either an AW or she just like to play this game and especially good at it. WHat do you guys think?

 

[Avn_0903]

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[Aiken_Drum]

The girl I'm currently gaming went back home in China for the summer. Before leaving her interest was quite high (staring at me from far away, wait for me after the finals even I didn't ask her to...). We won't see each other for 3 months. Do you think after 3 months of no contact, she would lose interest?

No if she truly likes you.
Project yourself into that situation. What would you feel after 3 months of not seeing a person you like? Perhaps when she comes back you'll need to rebuild the relationship a bit, but if you have played it right, you shouldn't have problems.

Also, this girl is very weird. One day her interest level shot through the roof, 2 days later she was already acting distant and I was being needy or anything. So things kept going like that and it's kinda fuking my head up. So I'm thinking this girl is either an AW or she just like to play this game and especially good at it. WHat do you guys think?

Some girls do this hot & cold game when they like someone, in order to play hard to get.
I know I do, even when in an LTR as I am. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in her. I love her (yeah, a DJ CAN love someone and still keep his balls... ).

The other reason, perhaps some days she feels more attached that others.
Don't you? I don't love my GF the same every day. Somedays I barely think about her, others I really want to be with her...

Perhaps you could make the relationship a bit more sparkling? C&F?

Remember, going between states of high and low interests is NORMAL for everyone.
As long as she's not uninterested every day, I think it's not a problem.

 

[Guybrush]

The girl I'm currently gaming went back home in China for the summer. Before leaving her interest was quite high (staring at me from far away, wait for me after the finals even I didn't ask her to...). We won't see each other for 3 months. Do you think after 3 months of no contact, she would lose interest?
Also, this girl is very weird. One day her interest level shot through the roof, 2 days later she was already acting distant and I was being needy or anything. So things kept going like that and it's kinda fuking my head up. So I'm thinking this girl is either an AW or she just like to play this game and especially good at it. WHat do you guys think?

So the question is do we think after 3 months of no contact, she would lose interest or not?
So you just stared at each other from 100 feet, she waited you to say goodbye after the finals and that's it?

and you'll be instantly available after 3 months, if she comes back and shows the slightest IOI...

If I were you, I would forget about her and focus on improving myself - don't settle for the first girl that shows interest.

Be patient, and improve.

 

[Social Calibration]

She may have interest, or she may not. It really depends on the girl... either way, you should be bettering yourself and focusing on your career, life, expanding your social circles and woman choices.

You should be in a position and a frame of mind where if you see her again and she's not interested, oh well it's her loss.

 

[DonGorgon]

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