“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How Long Will You Wait For Sex

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As we all know I'm a student of Leykis 101. One of the most important tenets of Leykis 101 is the "3 Date Rule." The 3 Date rule simply states that if you don't have sex with a woman by the third date, DUMB THAT B*TCH!!

It's a sound rule too. Women are non-confrontational and some are down right f*cked up. You have a lot of women who are more than willing to have your pay for their evenings out on the town and leave you with nothing than a kiss on the cheek at nights end. Some chicks are so f*cked up that they'll go out with you until they find somebody they do want to have sex with. The 3 Date Rule elimates this bullsh*t and keeps you focused on the mission objective, which is to get some nookie. The 3 Date Rule also saves you time and money.

My question is how long with you "court," a woman before you abort the mission? I have 3 dates. What's your limit, 5 dates, 10 dates, a month, six weeks, three mothns, six months. Also do you date exclusively one woman? Personally I don't. I keep'em "warming up in the bullpen," If my ace isn't working out. No problem. I just make that call to the bullpen, and have my middle reliver come in. If that's a no-go then there's always my "closer."

Chicks like to think they have that "magicial golden tw*t," that's worth waiting for. Bullsh*t. There's a lady out there who's not only ready to f*ck, but she's hotter and cuter than Ms. Wait Six Months. The only reason why women object to the 3 Date Rule is that it takes control from them. It lets them know they're expenable and you have confidence in your game and they're not as special as they previously thought.

If more dudes thought like me, the guys on this site, and fellow 101 students. Then their would be more ass for us all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I usually keep one in the back, but I don't have a set limit...
If I want it and she doesn't, I may drop her right there... It all depends on whether I still have fun with her or if she begins to bore me.
I don't chase it and I'll drop her when I feel like it.

Note: By drop her I mean, “I withdraw attention.”
I can still call up a good amount of the girls I dated and do something, but I don’t ;) .
 

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as long as it takes, or until I don't want to be with her anymore, whichever comes first.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
Chicks like to think they have that "magicial golden tw*t," that's worth waiting for. Bullsh*t. There's a lady out there who's not only ready to f*ck, but she's hotter and cuter than Ms. Wait Six Months.
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Funny sh!t is girls do this to alot of AFCs, thats why when I ask people what the most powerful weapon in the world, I always say Pusvy.

I've had a friend who waited a year, its crazy I've even had girl friends tell me that the quickest any guy could fuvk them was a month or 2.

For me it used to be 3 weeks, but now its usually a week. (assuming I see her twice that week) Like you said the Day3 is when I give up if I can't even get her into a area where were going to have sex. But if I've fingered her or did something semi sexual then I'll let her stick around.

An nope I can't see myself having only 1 gf because I love variety, and can't stay with one girl at a time. Just think about it staying with one girl for over 4 months never to mess with all the other hot girls around you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Distant Light said:
Just think about it staying with one girl for over 4 months never to mess with all the other hot girls around you.
:cool:
 

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Well... when I started dating my current GFI thought it would be best to only have sex after I had a real emotional connection... (I am such an AFC) After about 6 weeks I suggested sex but she was a fundemental Christian so she said she would only do it after marriage:eek: I was too attached to her to leave her so I found a book of the bible which celebrated unmarried love (Song of Solomon/Songs) and her faith was no longer an issue.

When her pastor aunt and uncle found out about it though they called us hell-bound adulterers... :nono: :nono:
 

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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3
Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex, the sex is NEVER worth the wait

When women make you wait for sex you are not their highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation of a friendship. It's sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. A woman who wants to fvck you will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fvck the sh!t out of you and wait patiently inside your closet when your girlfriend comes home early from work - women who want to fvck will find a way to fvck.

I agree with the takeaway methodology in principle, but I'm not a big fan of overcoming LMR in sexual situations. Aside from the 'date rape' vaugeries, I think finding a woman who is unquestionably ready to go is time better spent than trying to solve her head puzzles. I'm of the opinion that If a girl is that into you she'll fvck regardless of ASD or having her friends in the room videotaping it. All women are sluts to some degree, you just have to be the right guy to bring it out in them, and this should happen before you go back to her place. If you have to plead your case cuddling on the bed, you need to go back to square one and start fresh.
 

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I agree with Rollo Tomassi.

In fact, in all my adulthood life I don't remember ever going to a "date" with a woman that I either didn't kissed or actually got involved at some level of intimacy.

And I agree 100% with what he wrote here and in that chick's thread...sex and then friendship or sex and then relationship.

Cannot be the other way around when it comes to successful relationships.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
When women make you wait for sex you are not their highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation of a friendship. It's sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. A woman who wants to fvck you will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fvck the sh!t out of you and wait patiently inside your closet when your girlfriend comes home early from work - women who want to fvck will find a way to fvck.
Very true.

Was out with a chick for a 2nd date the other night. After the restaurant, as I was driving her home, she got all horny so I pulled over. We kissed, I fingered her, she got my c*ck out and started jerking me off, so I suggested we go back to her place...

Her: no, not tonight
Me: huh? :eek:
Her: i said... not tonight baby. you're gonna have to wait...

So i did a major freezout, make it clear I wasnt impressed, dropped her home and didnt call her the next day.

I just got an email from her saying "if you don't already have plans, do you wanna come around tonight?"

:woo:

So I guess showing them that you don't appreciate them thinkng they can make you wait will go a long way sometimes.
 

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Not even dates,if I don't see myself at least getting head or some type of physical contact immediatley I will NOT even talk to the *****.
 
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