There is a girl I met on match.com, and we have been emailing back and forth everyday. Yesterday she gave me her number and i called her, at the end of the conversation, i said to her we should hang out sometime, and she agreed that we should. The problem is that my clincal rotation doesnt start until next week, I wont actually be in her town until next sunday, and I am wondering how long should I wait to call her after our first phone conversation.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How long to wait until the next phone call???
- Thread starter marqZAL
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
why did you put this thread in 2 forums?.
here i thought it was a new one, but noooo ....
here i thought it was a new one, but noooo ....