There is a girl I met on match.com, and we have been emailing back and forth everyday. Yesterday she gave me her number and i called her, at the end of the conversation, i said to her we should hang out sometime, and she agreed that we should. The problem is that my clincal rotation doesnt start until next week, I wont actually be in her town until next sunday, and I am wondering how long should I wait to call her after our first phone conversation.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How long to wait until the next phone call???
- Thread starter marqZAL
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
why did you put this thread in 2 forums?.
here i thought it was a new one, but noooo ....
here i thought it was a new one, but noooo ....