mavericktf
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I just had a really good first date. How long do I wait to call her? Do I just wait until she gets in contact with me. What would a DJ do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how long to wait to call after first date?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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call her while your driving... or, your doing something and only have a few spare minuites. That is what I like to do. Gives the illusion that your really active and that she has to fight for your attention. 
First of all, get your first date out of your head. Stop thinking about it, forget how good it was. Look towards the future and try to vision yourself another date better than the first one. After you can do that it's time for you to call.
Helter Skelter
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This is so over rated in terms of the importance people place on this.
But I figured out a formula
Time Length of date (3hrs) X your age (17) divided by the number of weekdays since the date. raise that to the 4th power subtract 7
> less than or < greater = time you should wait to call
If the date was on Saturday for example you would call
on Tuesday evening at 9:13PM exactly. length of call should not exceed 17 minutes which my formula also determines.
3days 22hrs and 13 minutes you can never go wrong with this formula it's been field tested for years with 100% accuracy.
But I figured out a formula
Time Length of date (3hrs) X your age (17) divided by the number of weekdays since the date. raise that to the 4th power subtract 7
> less than or < greater = time you should wait to call
If the date was on Saturday for example you would call
on Tuesday evening at 9:13PM exactly. length of call should not exceed 17 minutes which my formula also determines.
3days 22hrs and 13 minutes you can never go wrong with this formula it's been field tested for years with 100% accuracy.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mavericktf
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thanks for the advice, anyone else have any suggestions