"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long to wait before msging a girl after having sex with her for the first time

Rake101

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Hey guys im not quite sure how to approach this . Anyways i just had sex with a hb 8 for the first time i met her off tinder and went to hers first night bang . now im wondering is it important to msg her the next day so she doesnt think it was a pump and dump. My whole Strategy is i just want to keep her as a plate that a have sex with from time to time so in saying that would it be a good idea to msg her tomorrow just so she doesnt assume its a pump and dump ? Because im thinking if i don't msg her tomorrow and i msg her in a week from now she would think he just wants 1 thing and she would be right lol but uno how women are.
Maybe if i dont msg her she will feel used or something and decide not to see me

And if i do msg her tomorrow what should i say ?
Or should i just leave it and msg her when i feel like it

Cheers boys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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