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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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How long to stay on the phone when a girl calls you?

JCKey618

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I know that us guys should only really call goirls to set up dates and stuff, but what about when they call you? For example, this girl I'm talking to just called me and I talked to her for about 10 minutes before saying I had something to do and for her to call me when she got home (she's on a roadtrip back home with her family, 2 hours away).

When the girl calls you is it OK to talk to them for long periods of time or is it good to still keep it short?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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LowPlainsDrifter

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I say: always keep it as brief as possible...

1. You sound like you have a life
2. You don't risk accidentally saying something "stupid"
3. You also have more conversational fodder/momentum when you two meet in person.
 

JCKey618

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So you're not risking losing their interest by not talking much on the phone?
 

LowPlainsDrifter

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The idea is to be a bit artful about it and just be on the phone the right amount.
Remember, if someone is really, really interested, I doubt cutting things short would cause that interest to die off instantly.
Sure, a rude premature hangup could kill interest level, but exiting convo early doesn't allow boredom or getting "talked out" to creep in.
 

Skullcrusher

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Seems like your game is good bro. I usually spend about 3-5 min for a "Hi" call, and 7-15 min for anything else. Anything more and I prefer a scheduled meeting in person.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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