"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how long should you wait before u call again if u call a HB and she doesn't pick up?

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sodbuster said:
Be very glad I'm not your boss, your ass would hit the pavement faster than an AW for texting on company time[the same as stealing-you are stealing time I paid you to work and using it as your own]
Be glad 'm not your employee or I'd have to report you to the officials for practising slavery. :p

Well, around here we are entitled to a break every now and then..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Energizer said:
I'd hate to say it guys, but women are all too familar with the 3 day rule and many of them will cut a man off after realising he is game playing. If she didn't answer her phone, just leave her a voicemail and if she gets back to you she gets back to you and if she doesn't then chalk it up as a loss.
Thank you the voice or words of common game sense. I second this.
 
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