last monday i was at a first aid course and afterwards when i was waiting to get a drive home there was another girl there waiting for a drive too so i started talking to her for about 10 mins i end up getting her msn and we talked for a bit later that day then i haven't been talking to her until today since she had graduation and work so she was just probably to busy to come online or whatever. so my question is how long should i wait to ask her out since i only talked to her for a total of like 40 mins. i don't even know if she likes me or even if shes single all i know is she laughs at like everything i say lol.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how long should i wait?
- Thread starter xander
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Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Well, you should strike while the iron is hot. Try to get her to meet up with you as soon as conveniently possible for you. It sounds like you aren't running game on her now, you should start doing that when you meet up with her.
