last monday i was at a first aid course and afterwards when i was waiting to get a drive home there was another girl there waiting for a drive too so i started talking to her for about 10 mins i end up getting her msn and we talked for a bit later that day then i haven't been talking to her until today since she had graduation and work so she was just probably to busy to come online or whatever. so my question is how long should i wait to ask her out since i only talked to her for a total of like 40 mins. i don't even know if she likes me or even if shes single all i know is she laughs at like everything i say lol.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
how long should i wait?
- Thread starter xander
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Well, you should strike while the iron is hot. Try to get her to meet up with you as soon as conveniently possible for you. It sounds like you aren't running game on her now, you should start doing that when you meet up with her.
