"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how long should call be with a girl.

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hey. i just had a quick question. i was on a skype call with the girl i like before. I'm Pretty sure i am friends zoned with her. but anyway we set up the called and we talk from 12am till just now 3:30am. lol. but after while i didn't really have much to talk about. so i was wondering.

how long should a convo be roughly. with a girl. i know i am still learning what to do. but i know for sure 3 hours is too long.

i hope this doesn't sound as stupid as it dose.
 

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20 minutes or less, really.

Your goal is to call and set up a physical meet. Then do the talking in person. All that "hey, how was your week?" stuff gets old real fast. Besides, even The Most Interesting Man in the World doesn't have that many good stories to tell.
 
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thanks guys. i know i should cut it shot. i will do next time. might talk for an hour cos we are friends. but i'm giving up on her anyway so.
 
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But tell the truth though you did enjoy that 3 hour convo a part of you was tired and wanted to stop and another part of you wanted to continue, lol. I know cos I've been there but from the things I've read on this site take the advices above. Well, if you really don't care about dating the girl then talk away but whatever happens always be the first to get off the phone. Even if she wants to let you go; find something to say to keep her on then be the one to let her go. Only one girl caught me on this, lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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