how long is to long to call?

[Ridingthelightning]

I have this girl's number I got 1½ months ago and never ever called her. At first because I couldn't (didn't have time) and then I just pondered on it, and now I don't know if its right. She's cool, fun to hang with and such, and I'd like to call. What do you all think?

And another girl, I got her number a long time ago and called once. We set up a bowling alley meeting, but she didn't show up in the time that I was there and I didn't feel like staying around there waiting, so I left. I talked to her a little more, but ultimately we haven't talked for a few months. The girl isn't that hot really, but she's a closet kinky sex freak, and that makes me horny. Should I call?

 

[Dee-Zy]

more then a week

 

[The Real Deal]

" I have this girl's number I got 1½ months ago and never ever called her. At first because I couldn't (didn't have time) and then I just pondered on it, and now I don't know if its right. She's cool, fun to hang with and such, and I'd like to call. What do you all think? "



You couldn't find a few minutes before, "(didn't have time)" I'll bet after 1½ months she won't have the time for you if you called. You said the other girl was even longer ago? I'd find someone else and forget about these two, you already wrote them off.

 

[aguynamedwill]

call them both, see what happens, then learn from it

 

[Santos]

Yeah I agree, call them anyway. Don't sit and speculate. What have you got to lose?

 

[iqqi]

if you really like her, when you call tell her you lost her number, then impress her by telling her you found it on your own. (internet, phone book)...

this will make it seem like you really care, and take away from the fact that you didn't really care at all before.

 

[PANK]

they prob wownt remember who you are

 

[digitalrat]

Try it, no harm in trying.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by PANK
they prob wownt remember who you are

Id have to agree.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

like most are saying on this thread...you have nothing to lose and all to gain if you call either girl and set something up.

generally, most guys on here are gonna tell you that you HAVE to wait 2 days...which I agree with. it makes you less needy and gives her a chance to think that you have a life and aren't desperate.

other guys on this thread will tell you to wait 5-7 days until you call her so the mystery in you rises and her IL will go up HUGELY...in my opinion, bad move. you wait that long on a lady, and she'll start to think that you're just a lil boy playing mind games. and besides, while you waited 7 days to call her back, on the 3rd day she was with me getting DJ'd and banged.

oh yea...the call back should be short and only used to set up a date. don't worry bout the mumbo jumbo "how's the dog, how's life, how's blah blah blah"

the call back should be like this: "Hey ____!!! Long time chica!!! I've been meaning to call you, but dayam, school's been kickin' my A**. I'm goin shopping for some gear to wear at the club tonight now that I'm a free man. You have good taste in clothes. Hey, I'm going around 7. You get ready around then, I'll pick you up, then we can catch up on old times and I can get some some styling tips from a pro."

-HQ