"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How long have you been practicing pickup???

Shooter McGavin

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I started my "journey" around 5 years ago. Of course it has been on and off since I had a controlling needy girlfriend for 2 of those years.

Before I actually started practicing, I had 0 friends who were girls and 0 girls that I was hooking up with. Just the thought of approaching a random girl scared the crap out of me. One day a girl broke my heart, I decided to make a change and I have been significantly better since then.

Where are you guys at on your journey to becoming a master???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wifehunter

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It been awhile! If you're talking about straight up attraction? Since 1998

I think we all have a God given natural ability to attract. But negative society, family, friends etc. try to oppress/downplay our natural inclinations. Deprogramming and reprogramming are the name of the game.
 

AlphaNate

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Over 3 years, if you're asking what I think you're asking. I was doing well until I fell hard for a "unicorn." Then I got content and lost it all, then lost the relationship. Still working on getting myself back, and a long ways off from being a master. Moving back in the right direction, though, finally!
 
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