"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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usually for a girl to emotionally disattach herself from an exboyfriend. This girl i know i started fvckin and hangin out with, shes JUST split up with her bf.. im talkin last week... she still says **** like its hte only guy she loved.. she still feels stuff.. yet also lets me take her out n kiss her etc..

She kinda strikes me as one of those insecure, not-alot-of-self-worth girls who will let you do stuff to her even if she doesnt relaly want to just to avoid confronting u or hurting u.. i duno why i get that vibe.. it sounds kinda stupid.. its just from stuff she says..

Is this just ASD at work and me overanalyzing? I mean her actions say "kiss me" and i do and she doesnt do anythin.. but if we ever skim serious convos which i try to avoid.. she doesnt seem to speak about me in an IOI way, although after each date she txts me to say "thanks that was cool.. ur so nice etc etc" .. but shes not flakey at all etc.. mayb shes hidin it.. shes said "Youre not my type" twice now.. yet i can still kiss/fvck her whenever i want without resistance..

yeah.. i think she likes me but she just needs to disattach herself first before her IL is able to skyrocket for me?? No?? or is the fact shes connected to someone else irrelevent to IL?.. she is quite moral too.. so mayb she just doesnt wana appaer to be the type of girl to like 2 guys..
 

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I think you're "rebound guy." There's really nothing I know of that you can do.

Im in the same boat. This chick was red hot for me before she broke up with bf, now that she's single, she's less interested, and says she needs time, and all that crap, yet still kisses me and calls me, but no more full on makeout sessions, like when she was taken. She's slowly warming back up though, so who knows?
 
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It's not ASD, it's in her head that she's not over him. All you can do is expedite that process of removal, or bail. She's going to feel confused for a longggg time.

(girls are messed like that)
 
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