How long do YOU wait to see a woman again after the first hangout/date?

[Masculinity]

In night/club game, as you may already know, escalation and kino are accelerated. However, usually girls that hang out at these places are not the best girls with whom to have LTR's. I'm now working on cold approaches wanting to meet a higher-quality girl. How long should you wait after a successful first date/hangout before you set up the second time you will hangout? Let's hear what you guys got!

 

[st_99]

There are no rules, only guidlines. Your mindset is all that really matters, as long as you keep that prize mentality it kind of doesn't matter.

But to answer your question, 2,3,4 days or something like that.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Usually I try to shoot for a week.. No matter how attracted I am to a girl. But usually I leave it up for the girl. I've had absolutely great first dates before, then had the girl texting me as I'm on my way home "You're so handsome blah blah I want to see you again as soon as possible". Then they suggest something maybe 2 or 3 days later.

Maybe this is where I'm screwing up. After doing this for a while they might think I have no life? haha

 

[Htienvu]

I normally leave it a week to see them again, couple of text and a phone call in between to set up the next date.

 

[shizz702]

It really depends. I've been in situations where it was a week later, and some where it was the next day.

Generally though I will wait a few days at least before seeing them again.

 

[Masculinity]

For me, a week would be the MAXIMUM time I would hold off calling.

Generally, though, I'll wait a least 2 days--assuming she doesn't contact me first. And even if she does contact me, I'll be slow to commit. I want to create within her a sense of insecurity, i.e. make her feel like she has to work a little bit.

I usually wait until they make contact, which is an obvious "I'm interested in more." However, there are girls that won't contact you even if they're interested because they don't want to come off as "easy" or they're simply shy. How do you create the sense of security and make her work?

Usually I try to shoot for a week.. No matter how attracted I am to a girl. But usually I leave it up for the girl. I've had absolutely great first dates before, then had the girl texting me as I'm on my way home "You're so handsome blah blah I want to see you again as soon as possible". Then they suggest something maybe 2 or 3 days later.

What if you haven't heard from them?

I met the girl I went out with in class and I see her twice a week. I kept it normal in class after our date. Now I'm debating on how I should make the second approach. A phone call should do or in person? She's was very touchy and playful in our date.

 

[Serg897]

A week is the ideal, although sometimes things are different and you end up seeing them the next day. It depends on a lot of variables.

 

[Zodiac]

It tends to be about a week for me except in certain circumstances such as she is only gonna be in the area for a short time or if I live close to her or her work then whenever I have no one new to get ahold of then I give her a booty call.

 

[Rubato]

2-4 days if she doesn't contact first. But it depends. Sometimes longer. Sometimes I forget and never contact them.