"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How long do you makeout?

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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I was thinking the other day... how long are girls content with just making out? Im not sure if its just cause im a guy, but I just wanna makeout like 2min and then start working towards sex.

If the situation entails a girl you know you wont have sex on a particular night, how long do you spend just kissing? Like I said, I get bored of it and just wanna move further along. 5min? 10min? What do u guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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charlie brown

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every girl is different. so i do it however long i feel, be in charge. then move on, maybe thats what she wanted all along.
Its funny. I smoke with alot of the girls I make out with. Usually right beforehand too.
I get the worst cotton mouth and kissing intensifies the process, its awful, but funny cuz it happens to the girl too and our kisses get real dry. After about 15 mins it gets real bad and prompts me to try something else : )
Sometimes i kiss for a long time and take the opportunity to improve my technique-- turn your session into practice.

Alot of the time i break the kissing into segments; 5 mins here, 2 mins straight there, this can go on for hours sometimes and the girl will get really horny sometimes leading her to stop kissing you and go further.
 

Wiesman44

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anything more than just 10 minute is annoying and just a tease.
 

El' Waynos

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Im seeing a girl who loves kissing, since she loves it and she says she does .. I have no real choice but to kiss her for 15 - 20 minutes at a time.... then at least I can rest assured that she is gonna be wet as hell..


enjoy it, I think kissing is fun, well if she is hot it is
 

penkitten

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you make out as long as both of you are still kissing.
there is no time limit to kissing or making out.
it is what it is. enjoy the heck out of it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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muttley

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10 minutes? lol i start and stop, start and stop start and stop for like a minimum of 30 minutes. I am continuosly rubbing her in all sorts of places :D

When it gets down to sex, she cannot wait for muttley to conquer her :D
 

diplomatic_lies

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50 mins non-stop, with a 1 minute break for lunch.

Haven't beaten that for 5 years.
 

Tomatoes

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Spend about 5 mins kissing. Then i start grinding abit. Then i go for abit of action. Works well for me.

I have made out with a girl for over 3 and a half hours thow (Constantly with only 5-10 second stops). I was only sweet 16. Awwww :woo:
 
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