Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
He's right. I have a problem in which I will let my mind wander or change the pace just so I can last longer. Then I'm so out of the mood that I can't even finish after like 45 minutes. And I feel awful, probably worse than someone who finished too early.Originally posted by Livingitup22
It depends on the girl I'm with, but I usually average in the 25-30 minute range. Longest I've ever went was around two hours. The shortest? Maybe ninety seconds.
When I was younger, I used to pride myself on being able to screw forever, but with experience I've learned that "longer" doesn't neccessarily mean "better". There is a kind of ebb-and-flow to sex-- especially with a regular partner--and taking it beyond its "natural" length often becomes more work than its really worth. Banging your lover into sumbmission can be ego-inflating but its not usually the best kind of regular intercourse to aspire to.
1. A-men. Well put. Few people know about the ebb & flow of love making.Originally posted by Livingitup22
When I was younger, I used to pride myself on being able to screw forever, but with experience I've learned that "longer" doesn't neccessarily mean "better". There is a kind of ebb-and-flow to sex-- especially with a regular partner--and taking it beyond its "natural" length often becomes more work than its really worth. Banging your lover into sumbmission can be ego-inflating but its not usually the best kind of regular intercourse to aspire to.