How long do you guys text with a new potential plate before asking her out?

[user252009]

I’ve been messaging a chick that lives about an hour away from my hometown where I’m currently on vacation for another week. We’ve had some casual texts back and forth and I told her she should meet me for come ****tails at this rooftop bar but she hasn’t responded yet (it’s been a day). I don’t like to waste time as it’s limited, so I was wondering how long do you spend texting a potential plate before asking them out?

 

[Georgepithyou]

Like 5 texts, then i go for a phone call and we go from there. I have had much more success when i call them

 

[Bingo-Player]

I told her she should meet me for come ****tails at this rooftop bar but she hasn’t responded yet (it’s been a day). I don’t like to waste time as it’s limited, so I was wondering how long do you spend texting a potential plate before asking them out?

You've already asked her out she hasn't responded which means you are not of high interest to her

i would not send this girl another message because chances are you will be heading down a rabbit hole of wasted time

IF she does reply send her a day and a time and absolutely nothing else

I WILL meet you at the bar at 6pm on xyz"

no kisses no other nonsense , on the chosen day one more message to confirm

" do you need me to pick you up tonight "

IF she blows you off then no other messages are to be sent.

 

[Poonstra]

Between 4 to 6 messages. There's good advise above ^^^