"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How long do I still have?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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lol even auschwitz prisoner's had flat stomachs and abs sooo that's not saying much. you know why? cause they weren't eating sh!t(literally, drop the calories drop weight, simple)bigneil said:
calories are calories no matter how many dumbass stickers saying "organic", "all natural" and "gmo free" they slap onto things. you realize most of the vegetables grown both on independently and privately owned farms are man made abominations(the context of this word is up for subjective grabs as i have no problems with massive veggies)? hardly "all natural" or "organic".
of course, you don't have to convince me, i've already been through the whole ordeal of losing weight and have been sustaining 12% bf yearly for years without fad diets and propagandized foods. it's all about the labels and food scales.
just gonna leave this here: http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/11/08/twinkie.diet.professor/
also i prefer whataburger
If you consider yourself goodlooking, and get validation from others telling you the same, it's quite hard to feel sympathy for you.
NO matter how good your personality is, having good looks (and knowing that you're good looking) must surely make it a he** of a lot easier to approach women.
Think of guys who are average or less than average looking. How hard would it be for them?
You probably only have to do put in minimal effort to cold approach; or build a social network.