"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How long do big gestures stay in a girls mind?

Confused

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The girl I have feelings for who ended things with me a month ago (even though we weren't technically together) she told me to 'do' nothing. she said she wasn't looking for a bf right now and wanted nothing.

I surprised her by buying her flowers, 1 for her roommate and 1 for her best friend on campus who hates me. It went down well. She texts me last night at 11.40pm 'my friend says thank you ;)' i think this girl was looking for me to meet up with her at midnight. I didn't go I just texted back ':)' She appreciated the gesture as it was such a surprise so I seem to be back in. How long do these good feelings last for her?

I saw her earlier today while I was on the phone, she was crossing the road with her best friend, she looked back and smiled and waved at me. I just waved. Can't remember if I smiled or not. Then as she crossed over I saw her look back i the distance wondering who i'm waiting for outside the cafe.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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K2000kidd

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Confused said:
The girl I have feelings for
STOP!!
Do not call her, text her or get within 10ft of her
til you get your head in the right place.
 
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