Amateur_FOR_NOW
Don Juan
for the guys that made it:
How long did it take for you to become DJ's? (from AFC to DJ)
How long did it take for you to become DJ's? (from AFC to DJ)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How long did it take for you to become DJ's?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What's your rush, take your time....Amateur_FOR_NOW said:
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Its not a journey with an end, there is no finish line, there is no path you can cross and "graduate" and call yourself a DJ.
It's an open ended path you take that results in continual self-improvement. The learning never stops.
It's an open ended path you take that results in continual self-improvement. The learning never stops.