"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by rgeere
I went 3 months without masturbating, and when I finally did I found out that it caused me to bleed internally from all of the pressure building up inside and all that shot out was this bloody mess. Scared the hell out of me. I went to see a doctor and the nurse looked at me funny when I told her that.
aww **** dude. That's fvkcing sick. You're supposed to have wet dreams when that **** happens. Then the *** just naturally releases....god that's sick. Day 1 is halfway done.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Lost
blue balls = hurts like hell... u dont want to know.
Yeah, I do.

It's been about 10 days now and since yesterday I've had a pain above my right testicle. It's in the area above my wang, and it isn't directly on my tesciles but I don't know what it is.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
I went 3 months without masturbating, and when I finally did I found out that it caused me to bleed internally from all of the pressure building up inside and all that shot out was this bloody mess. Scared the hell out of me. I went to see a doctor and the nurse looked at me funny when I told her that.
dude, you're scaring the **** out of me. i don't want to cvm now

25 days finished with here
 

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Originally posted by gav
dude, you're scaring the **** out of me. i don't want to cvm now

25 days finished with here

...really? It's just making me want to do it.

Here's something I remembered this morning that nobody has brought up. What do you guys think about research that shows that masturbating regularly can help prevent prostate cancer?
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
I went 3 months without masturbating, and when I finally did I found out that it caused me to bleed internally from all of the pressure building up inside and all that shot out was this bloody mess. Scared the hell out of me. I went to see a doctor and the nurse looked at me funny when I told her that.
In case anyone thinks I'm joking, I'm not. If you arn't having wet dreams or have masturbated for years without having wet dreams, don't go for long periods of time like that without any sort of release. The technical term is called hematospermia, which is greek for "bloody sperm." It's not life threatening if you get it, though. Atleast I didn't die.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Porky
Yeah, I do.

It's been about 10 days now and since yesterday I've had a pain above my right testicle. It's in the area above my wang, and it isn't directly on my tesciles but I don't know what it is.
I actually have been getting that lately too. Over the past 4 days.

Mind you i went on the 20 day thing. 2 wet dreams. on day 20 i got some action.

Then went 5 days later again witout wackin it. And started to get some pain in my balls.

i never had anything like that before when i went 68 days.
 

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finished 25 days. pretty good i think but it's time i blew it

i'm gonna cvm tonight and start going for a week at a time from now on

i can't concentrate on my studying too well just now, so it's a good thing for me

...blown... went all over my library books lol, which i had sat as far away from me as possible
 
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How do you feel now Gav?
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Yeah, I do.

It's been about 10 days now and since yesterday I've had a pain above my right testicle. It's in the area above my wang, and it isn't directly on my tesciles but I don't know what it is.
I get that too ocassionally, but that's only when I sleep on my stomach.
 

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Broke at Day 21. Afterall, it IS my birthday ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i whacked off last night and this morning cuz it's been a while and i don't feel that much different.

i'm still able to think as quickly as usual
my d1ck's still pretty big when flacid

however, i don't have that much of the usual horniness when walking about the place. good thing, bad thing? it's probably a bad thing for the moment because i want that masculine energy about me that would intimidate the folk i spoke with and cause girls to lock ec with me. (maybe it's all coincidence), but i'ma believe it's the anti-masturbation.

for you guys trying it, after about 15 days it only becomes a test of will power. the advantages beyond that are slim if any and your horniness will fluctuate: somedays you might see a sheep and think "oo, what a nice fat ass" (might ;)) and somedays you might see a stunning 10/10 piece of raw girly ass and think "wonder what time it is".
 

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It's been about two weeks or so since I stopped and I really don't feel that much different. Of course, the last time I thought this I did it and then felt like crap.
 

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Originally posted by gav
i whacked off last night and this morning cuz it's been a while and i don't feel that much different.

i'm still able to think as quickly as usual
my d1ck's still pretty big when flacid

however, i don't have that much of the usual horniness when walking about the place. good thing, bad thing? it's probably a bad thing for the moment because i want that masculine energy about me that would intimidate the folk i spoke with and cause girls to lock ec with me. (maybe it's all coincidence), but i'ma believe it's the anti-masturbation.

for you guys trying it, after about 15 days it only becomes a test of will power. the advantages beyond that are slim if any and your horniness will fluctuate: somedays you might see a sheep and think "oo, what a nice fat ass" (might ;)) and somedays you might see a stunning 10/10 piece of raw girly ass and think "wonder what time it is".
Hahahahahaha, so true!
 

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starting over as of friday 21stmay. i always go longer when there's a challenge. who else is starting again? or still going?
 

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Look at that...I did it and I don't feel any different.

I think perhaps this is a placebo.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by gav
starting over as of friday 21stmay. i always go longer when there's a challenge. who else is starting again? or still going?
I'm starting over today as well. Hopefully I'll last longer then a week.
 

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I'm starting now. Last time I went for 3 weeks and 4 days. It is amazing to look back and see all the great things I accomplished in that time...it made want BADLY to experience that again.

Day 2 for me will be Saturday, May 22.
 

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I'll start Monday. This weekends mine and my hand only. You can't take that away from me.


Well, you could if you cut of my hand of casterated me. Damnit, I wish they never invented knives.
 

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'll start Monday. This weekends mine and my hand only. You can't take that away from me.


Well, you could if you cut of my hand of casterated me. Damnit, I wish they never invented knives.
Why dude? You're basically letting yourself give in if you do stuff like that.

After 2 weeks it's no problem for me anymore, and I dont think i'll ever do it again.
 

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I busted today after about 2 weeks and a half or something.

starting again.......... now
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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