"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How long can you go without masturbating?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
that drinkin water thing sounds like a nice idea.
i still haven't got enough determination to start approaches yet though. just eye contact and hi's all over the place
i have got so much energy that after only 4 hours sleep last night, i feel great.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
CaptainMorgan
Don Juan
I hate you....Originally posted by bfl
Well im about to go throw a porn tape in and relieve some stress, ill be back in like 30 ,mins
dam my soldier is starting to get up just bu thinking of the movie.
got to run!!!........
I'm on day 5. I started because i had the worst prom night imaginable.
Thats not bad at all, days 4-like 7 are gonna be hard.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Found a porno tape that I forgot about in a box. Put it in and seen lesbians. I almost broke and started but people were out in the next room and they were coming in to help do a project. They would have had a pretty big suprise to find me jerking off instead of setting up for the project. That would not have went over well.
Later that night I had a strange dream about jerking off to the tape woke up and made sure nothing happened and went to bed again.
I am on day 8 and staying strong
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Big Pimpin'
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Jvesti
Master Don Juan
Don't do it, porn is useless gets you no where. You wanna get a nut find a female.
Whose in control of who here? ur **** or you?
Your looking at it the wrong way,
We're not holding out to find a chick. We're holding out so that we have more testostorone which will give us more of a drive to meet chicks.
We shouldn't be focused on sex, if we do, we give chicks all the control. Try to think about other stuff.
Byronic Hero
Don Juan
Ok... it's 9:40am. I'm going to delete the entire friggin' Internet and I'm on again. I can't believe I messed up. Grr.
Here we go again.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And yesterday was a bytch!! The habit to wack off is damn near instintual when no one is at home and I have nothing important to do. But I've been noticing that I've been more social and energetic the past few days. Hopefully it won't be too hard getting through the next week. To the guys that haven't dropped out yet, hang in there. Prove this to yourself. Your mind makes you a man. Not a c0ck. Prove it to the AFCs out there. Having a c0ck does not make you a man.
I'm with you all in spirit, and I will be watching you if you try to drop your shorts before your deadline! So don't try it.
Remember, I am there when you wack off. I am looking down on you because you have no willpower. You have no determination. Don't let me catch you!
I'm generally a happier and more energetic person now that I'm not whacking it. I just have to keep busy through this long three day weekend and I'll be all set.
And all of you guys who are having trouble - DRINK WATER AND DON'T PEE WHENEVER YOU REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO JERK IT.
aguynamedwill
Don Juan
Only hours from making it 7 days, I gave in. And it must've opened up a flood of hormones cuz less than 12 hours later I gave in again.
As others did, over the last 7 days I noticed some things:
Women started saying hi to me for no other reason than to get my attention.
My voice got deeper (no sooner than I whack one off and it goes up a notch again)
I got ballsier. (no pun - although they did get bigger) I was doing things I usually say 'I should do that' but then shy away from for whatever reason.
I had more energy, needed less sleep.
I got things done. I've been procrastinating on things and was finally getting those projects finished (or started).
All these definite changes in just a week. I'll be doing the 'no touch' challenge again, starting now.
I also noticed the best way to avoid doing it is to stay pre-occupied with other things. ie. having a life
So you want to masterbate but you do not want to let your penis throw up white stuff huh? You do not want your parents seeing nasty **** on the floor huh? Well I can help you out! By using this technique, you will never want to hold your penis and *** again! All you need is a paper-towel or a small piece of tissue.
:::Technique:::
Now... Hold your throat smoothly and not hard! Now without any injuries or pains, rapidly move your hand up and down on your throat and then... PFFT! A few seconds later, your saliva shall come out from your mouth! See? Easy! You just need good spitting skills.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.