"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long can i go?(sex question)

Jester

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Last night, for the second time of my life, i had sex with my girlfriend. I went for approximately 5 hours, sex, some varying positions, blow-jobss, etc, and i did not *** once(her on the otherhand, thats a MUCH different story). Now i know its far from impossible for me to come because well you get the idea, but whats up with that?

The sex felt good, and no i was not wearing a condom(shes on birthcontrol and because we had sex once before(condom that time) i knew i wasnt even gonna come close to coming). So whats the deal?

What can i do? I'd like to atleast sometimes especially because she felt bad that i didnt and she did so many times(i said it still felt really good).

I know most guys have exactly the opposite problem, coming too soon, but have any of you experienced this, and if so, what have you done to remedy it?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Digitz

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I had this same problem a little while ago.

Now i see it as a gift, its like an off and on switch for blowing your load.

Bang her until she orgasms a few times then start to really focus on what your doing in your head. Realize how good those pink lips feel around you and that usually gets me off.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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