if I know her address, after the FIRST and ONLY the FIRST time I **** her, I'll send flowers the next day.
I mean, even the biggest slut on earth doesn't consider themselves a slut.. just like a crackhead would probably never call themselves a crackhead.. just crack dependant
I mean... waiting 2-3 days after you have HAD SEX is like still using pickup lines when she has agreed to go on a date wtih you.. you are a couple of steps behind. You are already in the door. You aren't playing push pull anymore.
However, I think it's more important, and enough guys don't realize this.. I don't care if you haven't had a girl in years or if her cat is just that good, don't **** her the next night.
Don't even see her the next day if at all possible. I'll send flowers, if she calls to say thanks, which she will always do, I'll talk for no longer than a mintue or two, and tell her politey I am busy and will get back to her later when I am not as tied up.
Remember, maintaining a relationship with a woman isn't always about "breaking the barrier".. I guess guys are just so used to getting turned down.
It's more like a roller coaster. After the first sexual experience, if you are any good whatsoever, she is going to want to do it again.. soon. And if she likes you + wants to do it again, she just might try to setup a date for the next night.
However, one of the worst things you can do, at least in my opinion, is NOT call her the the day after you have tapped it. You have just ruined x amount of days of work. Now she feels like she is a one night stand... you might get lucky with some girls, but you can't go wrong with calling to say thanks or I h had a great time, gotta go.
If I don't know her address which usually isn't the case..I at least knows where she works (which is even better) I'll give a phone call, and say I just wanted to give you a ring to let you know I really enjoyed last night, as I hope you did as well. Anyway, I have a busy day today, so I have to go, but I'll keep in touch."
Bam.
