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how long before a wedding is it appropriate to get a date to it

jvick

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i have a couple weddings to attend this summer, one in late may and one in august. Would it be wierd or too early to tell one of my plates she should come with me to the may one? i havent been to a wedding since i was probably 12 years(and then i was just a kid with my family).
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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I'd hold off til 2-3 weeks from the wedding... and if there's not much action happening at this time, go solo. Haven't you ever watched wedding crashers?

(I'm not kidding... there's alot of truth to that movie, when it comes to single chicks at weddings... you could have a blast, solo)
 

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...REALLY! I think you should watch the above show and do what they do...look for some of those horny brides maids like the main character says "Gotta bring the honeymoon to one of the poor bridesmaids tonight."

I would totally love to try my game at one of these things or better yet ...at a fvking funeral! LOL....me and my friend are trying to figure out how this is possible but it seems you have to plan way way way ahead for one of these type of things so it was a no go.
 

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jvick said:
i have a couple weddings to attend this summer, one in late may and one in august. Would it be wierd or too early to tell one of my plates she should come with me to the may one? i havent been to a wedding since i was probably 12 years(and then i was just a kid with my family).
If you ask her now, she may say "yes" and flake on your a$$ a week before the wedding. Wait about 4 weeks. Thats a good time, for her to ensure she can get time off of work, ect. And if she really likes you, she would go to Taco Bell with you, a chance to be your date at a Romantic Wedding would turn her on.
 
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