"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How legit is the "if after eye contact they look down = attraction" idea?

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My title says it all. If you get eye contact with a girl and then she looks down after, does that really signal attraction?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did she hop on one foot? Did she sneeze when walking by... while wearing red socks?

If you get any of these signals, FORGET ABOUT GETTING LAID.
 

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I pick up by eye contact atleast once a week.

I stroll around nightclubs drunk as hell. I notice a girl, I hold eye contact, I talk to her. I don't care where she looks.

homo.
 

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Well after reading the advice columns here at the site one would come to beleive that when she does look down that she has slight IL in you assuming that she gets flustered and looks down,

or she could just simply not care one bit in the world in you and just doesn't want to look at you
 
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