"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How is this out of line?

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Energizer

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My mate reckons I am out of order, because I just pursue women for sex with no regards for their feelings or wants. He even levelled the player tag at me which is unfounded as I make it known to women that I am not interested in a relationships with a conversation. He's more of a relationship man and believes that ONS and FB's are for losers who are too scared to enter mature situations.

What's your opinions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you believe yourself to be a loser? If not, then who cares what your friend thinks. Different folks are bound to have different opinions. We can't all agree on everything. If it's alright with you, then you shouldn't feel the need to justify your actions to anyone.
 
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It bothers me because he likes to gossip, and if I get a reputation where I live as a player then I'm f*cked because women where I like to be hypocritical and will stay away from anyone who has a reputation as a player. Of course when they do it its acceptable. This is the same lad that embarrassed me at a house party when he told a girl who was eying me up that I was a virgin.
 
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Tell him that your honest with everyone you meet and don't offer fake goods. Ask him if these ladies needs aren't being met, why are they still seeking your company ;)? We all have choice. If the ladies don't want players then they should act accordingly. Hate the game. Not the player. I would stop hanging out with that set of friends when your out gaming. Hell I usually fly solo anyway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Time for a more mature friend. You don't need friends who will slander you and drag you through the dirt- you have enemys for that.
 
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I run into these types all the time when I go out.

More times than not, they're insecure losers who are sour about not getting p*ssy. They justify their lack of p*ssy with being 'mature' and not being a player.

Funny thing is, these guys secretly aspire to be players but they just can't cut it.

I pity them if anything.
 
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Energizer said:
It bothers me because he likes to gossip, and if I get a reputation where I live as a player then I'm f*cked because women where I like to be hypocritical and will stay away from anyone who has a reputation as a player. Of course when they do it its acceptable. This is the same lad that embarrassed me at a house party when he told a girl who was eying me up that I was a virgin.
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As pointed out by others, if this guy is going to screw you over like that, then he's not a friend. I suggest you kick him to the curb. Friends can disagree, but friends don't maliciously try to ruin friends' plans.
 
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Some guys just cant do relationships.Im like you 90 percent of the time but i do LTR's once in a while..
 
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