"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How is the request for "no keyboard jockeys" taken in this forum?

RationalHandsome

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It is not uncommon on the internet for people to offer advice on stuff they do not have enough first hand experience.

On a PUA forum that´s a even more common ocurrence.

Myself, as I grew older, I understand the importance of firsthand experience and as such I refrain from posting if I do not have the proper experience.


So the question is: how is it viewed on this forum if you request in a thread that "KJs" are unwelcome to post?

Is it offensive if such a request is made?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheException

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So the question is: how is it viewed on this forum if you request in a thread that "KJs" are unwelcome to post?

A major symptom of a keyboard jockey is the refusal to admit to being a keyboard jockey. Just read all responses and decide on your own who makes the most sense.
 

Atom Smasher

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A KJ is not going to say to himself... Hmmm... I'll refrain from answering as I happen to be a KJ".

This reminds me of women on dating sites who say "If you're into playing games please do not reply".

I do get a chuckle out of the occasional thread here on SS where a new guy will ask a serious, intelligent question and then one after another these new guys with two or three previous posts start spouting off their "wisdom". I shake my head and just wait for one of the old timers to get things on track, or I might do it myself occasionally if I'm inspired with a useful brain eruption.
 

Purefilth

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Dont trust anyone who has more than one Green Dot - Theyre all KJ.

Red dotted people are your friends ;)
 

PlayHer Man

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If you're worried about "offending people" on the Internet then you probably get run over in real life.

You can't control who replies to your threads. Just read all the answers and take the wisdom where you find it. Weed out anything that doesn't pass the logic test.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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RationalHandsome

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PlayHer Man said:
If you're worried about "offending people" on the Internet then you probably get run over in real life.

You can't control who replies to your threads. Just read all the answers and take the wisdom where you find it. Weed out anything that doesn't pass the logic test.
Nope, I am very much alpha in real life. I´m not actually concerned whether I´m offending someone, it´s just that I don´t know how this forum´s moderation would take a novice poster demanding that the people posting have a proven track record or something. Moderation might decide it´s out of line behavior and block my account.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Might as well try pissing up a tree....or however the saying goes.
 
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